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ok so i have 2 house cats they're Persian...well we had our female cat for about 12 years now and our male cat for about 7 years they have lived together for those 7 years and everything was fine except for the first few days the female cat was a bit aggressive...the male is neutered but the female is now...i'm not saying they were always "best friends" but they got along just fine. Sometimes the female cat attacked him but that was only when something frightened her...The last couple of days though whenever she just sees him she attacks him for no reason he might be sleeping and she spots him and attacks really aggressively we even tried to separate them for a few hours but it didn't work and she's always trying to look for him so she can attack him again. She's only aggressive towards him with all of us she just acts normal. We even tried spraying her with water but she's only scared of it when she's not attacking him just yet only when she's about to attack, but once she attacks him it doesn't stop her. I have no idea what to do about it they cant be in the same room together without one of them being locked in another room. Please help. THANK YOU.

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Hi Kat,

I would first get your older girl checked out by a vet. Sometimes when older cats get sick they get very touchy and lash out. If she checks out okay I would then investigate what has changed in and around your house that is upsetting her. It could be something as simple as a cat walking around outside that she can see. You need to remove whatever is bothering her. She is taking her frustrations out on the male. After removing what the problem is you will then need to do a cat introduction protocol. She needs to be reintroduced to the male all over again.

Find what is causing her to be upset, remove it and reintroduce them again. This is what will take of your problem. Until then keep them separated or supervise them together. Good luck.

Ciao, Karen

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I can give advice on cat behavior. I can help about newborn kitten care. I can help with senior cat care. I can answer questions about cat proofing a home or making it cat friendly. I can answer diet questions. I can answer home treatments questions for cats. At present I have 13 cats in home and two ferals outside. And there's always room for one more!

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I have over 40 year's experience with cats. Father was a veterinarian and I assisted him in his work. I have 15 cats at present. Most are shelter or feral rescues. I have one purebred cat. I have done cat rescues and foster care. Some thoughts to carry with you. A Cat's 10 Commandments My life is likely to last 15-20 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful. Give me time to understand what you want of me. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainments. But I have only you. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it. Before you swat me, before you strike me, remember that I have teeth that could draw blood. And claws to strike back. And yet I choose not to attack you. If I don't act right then have me checked to see what is wrong. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too will grow old. On the difficult journey, on the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there. Because I love you so. Take a moment today to thank God for your pets. Enjoy and take good care of them. Life would be a much duller, less joyful thing without God's critters. Pass this on.

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