Expert: Norman Auspitz - 10/19/2011

Question
Hey,

We have a 3 yr old neutered male tabby, Milford and a small 7 week old kitten. Our older cat just passed away recently from heart failure (VERY sudden, I left with him and never came back with him) Milford was upset about this, you could tell. We noticed he was getting some separation anxiety, he would sit and wait at the door when we left with our dog. He's never been alone before.

We got a kitten 2 days ago, at first Milford ignored him and tried to play every so often and the kitten would hiss and get scared. Today the kitten is MUCH more outgoing and playing with Milford, but Milford keeps sitting on him and biting his neck, just before this Milford chirps little meows chasing him. The kitten meows and doesn't squirm much, Milford however doesn't always let go of his neck. I tried putting my hand inbetween and it doesn't seem like he's biting hard. However the kitten is still chasing Milford's tail and somewhat interacting with him.

If the kitten is sleeping, Milford completely leaves him alone, he'll sniff him as he walks past but not a interest to harm him.

I'm worried that he may accidently strangle the kitten if he doesn't let go.

Is he trying to dominate the kitten (if cats do this) or is he playing or trying to kill him?

Thanks

Answer
Kris,

Milford is playing. Cats play with each other very roughly as their skin is very, very tough.  You also may want to socialize the kitten to humans if the kitten also plays too roughly with us softer skinned humans.

Yes cats do dominate a new arrival and it is all within the normal scope of normal cat activity. I would not worry about Milford hurting the kitten.

Has the kitten had its shots?  If not, that would be a first order of business.  If the kitten does not go outside, it does not heed and FeLV or FIV shot! Rabies depends on the jurisdiction you are in and is covered under the law. Frankly, this kitten is too young.  What it does need is a 3 in 1 (panleukopenia, calici, rhinotracheitis) shot. # weeks later it can have the 3 in 1 booster.  There are no other shots the kitten should need right now. If the vet tells you otherwise, you may want to find a new vet!

Please let me know how things progress.

Best regards... Norm.