Expert: Jessica - 4/30/2011

Question
Respected Madam
I am Mohammedali here I am having 3 English cats 1 female cat and 2 male cat and upto 1 year they stayed along with each other in a good manner and a friendship but now from 10 to 15 days my two male cats started fighting against each other and one big  male cat is getting frightened from a smaller one and stays hidden in cupboard or in a bed or somewhere else because of a smaller male cat as he attack him again and again.SO I can't understand dear what to do and how make friendship again with each other.Please guide me and send me the tricks and tips for making them again friends.
Thanking You
Your's faithfully
Mohammedali Sayeed

Answer
Hi Mohammedali,

I believe what is happening is that your two males are sexually mature now, and they are fighting because of this. This can be made worse because of the presence of the female. Sadly, this is how male cats behave once they reach adulthood, especially if they are trying to win the attention of a female.

If there is a vet in your area that practices neutering, this is a great way to put an end to the fights. Have both males neutered, and it would be best to have the female spayed as well. This will prevent other aggressive males from making unwanted visits.

If your cats are already neutered, you should separate them completely for two weeks, and then try introducing them again slowly. Sometimes cats have a misunderstanding and need a long period to calm down before they can begin to mend their relationship. After two weeks, see if they will share a meal together, eating at opposite ends of the same room. If this goes well, increase the length of their visits. If it goes poorly, try again in a few days. It can take a lot of time, but most cats will learn to accept each other with plenty of patience.

Best wishes!

Jessica