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Hi, several years ago I rescude a kitten from some very mean kids, they happen to be a part of the family, and I observed them (well lets make a long storry short) by the time I could get the kitty from them she had a broken leg. Anyway I ended up falling inlove w/her and keeped her. We already had 2 cats one that is 19 years old as of now and about a 1 year old. There all females and get along great, well for the most part, baby wich is the one I kept grew up to be a well you know. They are all spayed and healthy, althoght baby is a bit over weight, they all go outside to potty and all is good. Anyway I got a nother kitten and baby will not adapt to him he is nueterd, and we have tried every thing you can think of. baby is not giving in and it has been a month. my little kitty is gettin scared aolt
Hi Tiffntrish,
Sometimes it takes a lot more time to have a cat settle in. Try a product called Feliway Comfort Zone. It mimics cats happy pheromones and relaxes them. This should help. Give Baby a little extra attention. Some cats feel neglected and will take it out on the newcomer. And if this doesn't work, write back and I'll give you the name of something you can give Baby to calm her down. Good luck.
Ciao, Karen
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Answers by Expert:
Karen Craft
Expertise
I can give advice on cat behavior. I can help about newborn kitten care. I can help with senior cat care. I can answer questions about cat proofing a home or making it cat friendly. I can answer diet questions. I can answer home treatments questions for cats. At present I have 13 cats in home and two ferals outside. And there's always room for one more!
Experience
I have over 40 year's experience with cats. Father was a veterinarian and I assisted him in his work. I have 15 cats at present. Most are shelter or feral rescues. I have one purebred cat. I have done cat rescues and foster care.
Some thoughts to carry with you.
A Cat's 10 Commandments
My life is likely to last 15-20 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful.
Give me time to understand what you want of me.
Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being.
Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainments. But I have only you.
Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me.
Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it.
Before you swat me, before you strike me, remember that I have teeth that could draw blood. And claws to strike back. And yet I choose not to attack you.
If I don't act right then have me checked to see what is wrong.
Please take care of me when I grow old. You too will grow old.
On the difficult journey, on the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there. Because I love you so.
Take a moment today to thank God for your pets. Enjoy and take good care of them. Life would be a much duller, less joyful thing without God's critters. Pass this on.
Education/Credentials
I have an A.A.S.
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