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We have two cats-white cat (resembles a Siamese and has always been very timid) and black cat (born without a tail and has always been dominant cat-not aggressive but eats first and is "laid back").  Our cats have the same mother (stray cat who saw fit to deliver in our barn five years ago).  Both were spayed about 4 years ago and have lived in harmony i.e. sleep together, groom each other, inside our home ever since.  Two months ago white cat literally attacked black cat leaving black cat terrified.  We have separated them but when doors get accidentally left open (about 5-6 times in two months) it is obvious the problem is as bad as ever.  Black cat will sometimes go to the bedroom door and just hiss as if afraid white cat is close by.  Neither cat displays any other personality changes, their appetites and general health seem fine. We sure hate to get rid of one as my daughter is attached to both of them to the point she used to let them sleep on top of her.
Black cat stays in her room now 24/7 and doesn't try to get out while white cat has the rest of the house.  I hope you have a solution as I've come up with nothing or no one who has ever heard of this problem.

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Hi Sandy,

It sounds like something set off the dominant cat and he is directing his aggression out on the other cat. Are there any strays around? This will sometimes trigger behavior like you have going on. If there is, try to make sure the white cat can't see it. Get a product called Feliway. This stuff acts as a kitty tranquilizer and will calm the white one down.

Did you take one cat to the vet and not the other? This will also trigger aggression. If you did write back and I will help you there.

There are certain meds you can give the white one to calm him down. You should also take him to the vet to make sure he is ok. See if can figure out what changed right before this aggression happened. It could be something like a new person in the household. Write back and let me know if anything changed. Also try the Feliway. Good luck.

Ciao, Karen

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I can give advice on cat behavior. I can help about newborn kitten care. I can help with senior cat care. I can answer questions about cat proofing a home or making it cat friendly. I can answer diet questions. I can answer home treatments questions for cats. At present I have 13 cats in home and two ferals outside. And there's always room for one more!

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I have over 40 year's experience with cats. Father was a veterinarian and I assisted him in his work. I have 15 cats at present. Most are shelter or feral rescues. I have one purebred cat. I have done cat rescues and foster care. Some thoughts to carry with you. A Cat's 10 Commandments My life is likely to last 15-20 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful. Give me time to understand what you want of me. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainments. But I have only you. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it. Before you swat me, before you strike me, remember that I have teeth that could draw blood. And claws to strike back. And yet I choose not to attack you. If I don't act right then have me checked to see what is wrong. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too will grow old. On the difficult journey, on the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there. Because I love you so. Take a moment today to thank God for your pets. Enjoy and take good care of them. Life would be a much duller, less joyful thing without God's critters. Pass this on.

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