Do not tell me to touch my penis.  I think that is worse than having nightfall.  I don't want to touch my penis.

Do not tell me how to answer questions.  Your job is to ask.  Answering the questions is my job.

Masturbation is normal, healthy, and fun, and even necessary for male sexual health.  It is a lot more fun than having nightfall (wet dreams).  You should want to masturbate.  And I think you do.  You said you don't want to touch your penis, but you didn't say you don't touch it.  So just touch it more often.  Most guys past puberty masturbate about once a day.  I think you should do it daily and enjoy it, and then your wet dreams will cease.


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When it comes to celibacy/abstinence, I am more likely to point out the downside of being sexually abstinent. I don't advocate abstinence as a long-term sexual lifestyle. Abstinence is a good thing when the alternative is being sexual in an indiscreet manner, but it is a bad thing when a healthy sexual lifestyle of being monogamous with a partner is available. I frequently answer questions in the masturbation and male masturbation categories on AllExperts.com. I take all questions pertaining to sexuality.


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