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|Comment||If lust is a nebulous term for you then you should have checked a dictionary. Then you wouldn't need to quote the word repeatedly. As you're an "expert" in the category of celibacy/abstinence, being clear about the meaning of lust will help you. "Avoiding lust will help the ones around you" (paraphrased) You're getting a wrong impression of me. Sought after girls keep directly proposing me and making physical moves on me. And I'm the one who rejects them. "If you help people then you'd be *surprised* how fast time flies!" (paraphrased) As I'm just anonymous here, and you've your real name here, I'll stop. For your benefit, I suggest you delete the question, and thus your answer and my comments will also be deleted.|
I can answer any questions about mental and emotional issues with regards to abstinence. We all know that there are times in our lives when we will not be able to engage in sex. There are psychological ways to condition both the mind and body to suppress the desires (without permanent harm), which can lead to a lifetime of fulfillment in other areas of life. Sex addiction is an Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, where the brain is "addicted" to the act of sex. After the act, the addict is often not satisfied and craves more. Sometimes, doing the act itself can exacerbate the desire to do it, which can send a person into a viscous cycle of craving and dependency. Breaking the cycle is the key to getting the addict off of the "desire" and on the road to recovery.
I am one of only a handful of male virgins left in the United States.
The Real 40 Year-Old Virgin of Orange County (Xlibris 2010)
Bachelor of Science, Fordham University
Many of the people who ask for my advice wish to remain anonymous. They are teenagers and young adults who for whatever reason can't discuss abstinence issues with family and friends. I have had a few clients from India, where modern technologies are allowing more people to engage in these issues.