Celibacy/Abstinence/Trouble from Porn

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Hi Dhananjay Sir,
         I have been married for nearly 4 years now.I was following celibacy strictly but somehow started watching porn again.
Now I am not able to ejaculate during sex but i am able to ejaculate in full measure while watching pornography.
Mine marital relationship is geeing strained.Please help me out.

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Porn indulgence destroys all faculties eventually. The wise do not take recourse to it. Stop the porn and do your Sadhana right. Things will resolve in a few months.

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Questions concerning the practice of 'Brahmacharya' to know the self, & the means required are dealt with here.

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The term 'Yoga' is a derivative of the Samskruth verb 'Yuj' which refers to union. 'Yoga', also called 'Brahma vidy‚' is the eternal dissolution of the individual 'Aham' (Ego) into the Atman (self) for 'Mukti' (liberation). Mere indulgence in '¬sana' or physical postures is not Yoga. ¬sana is only one limb or 'Anga' of Yoga. The eight limbs viz. Yama, Niyama, ¬sana, Pr‚n‚y‚ma, Praty‚h‚ra, Dh‚rana, Dhy‚na and Sam‚dhi are the means to Yoga. Brahmacharya or spiritually based continence is one of the important components of 'Yama'. 'Brahmacharya':- "Brahmani charyathey ithi" - "To surrender one's Ego and go with the will of the Almighty."

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Bachelors degree in Engineering.

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