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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| regret on cheating | 11/22/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: I'm a 28 year old male and cheated on my girlfriend with an old college fling. It was dumb since it ... A: I assume you spilled your guts to her and explained what happened. Ask her what she wants to do. ... | ||
| cheating boyfriend | 11/2/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: i have been in a relationship for two year and my boyfriend is heating with a girl next door i ... A: In this situation, you should talk to your man and ask him who he wants. If he says you, then show ... | ||
| He Cheated on me | 10/22/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: ok so i've been dating my boyfriend for seven monthsand we were perfect, like i thought nothing ... A: You are still very young and their are plenty of men out there. If it was once, then a second ... | ||
| Found an email to an ex-girlfriend | 10/22/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: This email totally fell on my lap... He left his email account not signed out and thinking it was ... A: Men often start to get bored in a relationship, and look for an outlet to fulfill there desires. ... | ||
| Boyfriend cheated after 3 years | 10/20/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: So I have being on this relationship for more than 3 years, about a week ago I had a sleep over his ... A: The best way for you to regain the trust you had is for him to prove himself to you. You have to ... | ||
| Boyfriend cheated after 3 years | 10/19/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: So I have being on this relationship for more than 3 years, about a week ago I had a sleep over his ... A: It is one of those things that you have to go with your heart. If you think he can change, and his ... | ||
| I found videos of her having sex!! | 10/9/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: So... I had an idea my girlfriend was cheating on me so I did some looking around and got access to ... A: Well if you enjoy watching it, let it continue. Telling her you know would ruin the taboo aspect ... | ||
| Confused | 10/8/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: so I have an issue which bothers me a lot concerning my boyfriend. We are both (in my opinion) very ... A: Maybe you should experiment with your boyfriend first. There are all kinds of different positions ... | ||
| Obsessed and hurting | 10/8/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: I'm 50, have been married almost 20 years and my husband feels I am being afflicted with menopause ... A: Discuss it with this man and see what he is looking for, if it is just sex, then don't bother. It ... | ||
| Relationships | 10/7/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: I'm in a bumpy relationship, I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me with this girl that I hate. ... A: No, that would make you no better then him. If the relationship was bumpy before he cheated on you, ... | ||
| Can't understand why! | 9/30/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: I've been in a relationship with my best friend for 3 years now, and not only I love her, but we ... A: Hmm this is a tough situation. I would sya if your really love her then you would respect her ... | ||
| Need advice | 9/30/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years - I'm 31 and she's 23. I became ... A: It sounds like you are doing the right thing. You seem to love her, and she loves you as well, and ... | ||
| Being cheated on? | 9/21/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have a two month old child ... A: All you really need to do is catch him somehow, but really, you already got your answer. It is ... | ||
| was that permission to cheat. | 9/20/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: ok not sure where to go with this BUT my long term partner of 4+years made a weird statement after ... A: I understand completely, but you have to be sympathetic to her as well. She is carrying your child, ... | ||
| was that permission to cheat. | 9/19/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: ok not sure where to go with this BUT my long term partner of 4+years made a weird statement after ... A: A lot of the time, women become offended by there partner's watching porn. My opinion, you should ... | ||
| Is it or isnt it.. | 9/17/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: I have been on and off again w a guy I met back n may. but recently we got back together.. He has ... A: I think he is just trying to show how much he loves you. You always have to give them the benefit ... | ||
| How to forgive a cheating boyfriend | 4/28/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I don't know whether talking to a girl over the phone for about an hour couple of days a week called ... A: This must be the season for bad behavior because my questions are getting impossible to keep up ... | ||
| Wanting to cheat-desparate fro discretion | 4/19/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I want to cheat on my husband with a man (lets call him Barry) I have known for over a year. Barry ... A: You are definitely a thinker! I hope the bug net thing works out. I really can't think of anything ... | ||
| help with a partner who has cheated | 4/19/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I was with my partner for just over a year and we split up for about 10 months. we decided to give ... A: There is really no way to make you care less. You can just wear bored of the act as you move forward ... | ||
| Wanting to cheat-desparate fro discretion | 4/19/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I want to cheat on my husband with a man (lets call him Barry) I have known for over a year. Barry ... A: Ok, it's good to know the surrounding area better. The horse thing is great! If its such a small ... | ||
| Wanting to cheat-desparate fro discretion | 4/19/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I want to cheat on my husband with a man (lets call him Barry) I have known for over a year. Barry ... A: The physiological game is much more important than maintaining identity. (Of course maintaining your ... | ||
| Young Love Forever? | 4/15/2010 | Elise |
| Q: my name is Alex, and I'm 16 and my partner is 17. We've been "together" for about 7-8 months now. ... A: What I'm trying to say in a nice way... is it doesn't really matter. One day you'll look back and ... | ||
| Thoroughly confused, and not even sure where to start | 4/14/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I'm 35, married for about 15 years now. My wife was my first time, and so far my only one. We're ... A: If you are SURE this is the path you want to take, I can help. I'm here to answer questions right? ... | ||
| I'm about to cheat on my husband | 4/14/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I met a man who had 2 kids & a girlfriend, for this reason we could not commit to each other so we ... A: Wowzers. Well. The vagina wall is made to expand when penetrated, so unless you get a brutal beating ... | ||
| Young Love Forever? | 4/14/2010 | Elise |
| Q: my name is Alex, and I'm 16 and my partner is 17. We've been "together" for about 7-8 months now. ... A: I tend to decline younger questions like this because the comprehension simply isn't there. But you ... | ||
| Internet 'cheating' | 4/12/2010 | Elise |
| Q: When is internet cheating not cheating? I am still with my partner but last year found emails ... A: I honestly didn't catch a "red flag" until half way thru when you said he said "it's all in your ... | ||
| Need clarity | 4/10/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I am in a difficult situation but will try to keep my question short. I am a married woman with ... A: The address is a big one for sure. The rest could be just normal flirtation. Does he do that with ... | ||
| At an impasse | 4/9/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I’ve been with my partner now for 6 almost 7 years. I am 26 and he is 40. We’ve been through highs ... A: I'm sorry, this one is very hard, I try to see all the sides and offer different ideas but I can ... | ||
| Convinced me of an open relationship | 4/9/2010 | Elise |
| Q: Hey, I posted a couple of days ago about me being tempted to cheat - your feedback was extremely ... A: That's the hard part. Even for a well spoken and confident person on the subject... it is a hard ... | ||
| Need clarity | 4/8/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I am in a difficult situation but will try to keep my question short. I am a married woman with ... A: I love an open relationship! Congratulations for finding a man and being open to enjoying life to ... | ||
| Tempted to Cheat | 4/7/2010 | Elise |
| Q: Im 21 this june and my partner of two years 27. He has a two year old son who iv been around since ... A: Amy, The thing is, there is always going to be another guy if your accessible to it. Perhaps the ... | ||
| Curious and Confused | 4/2/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I'm married to a great guy that I deeply love very much. He makes me happy and we are a great ... A: You know, an open relationship is better than the "swinging" and the picking a date. It's less shock ... | ||
| Curious and Confused | 4/1/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I'm married to a great guy that I deeply love very much. He makes me happy and we are a great ... A: I've got to warn you. I get very very wordy on this subject. I'll keep it short. But it truly is, my ... | ||
| Ex-Boyfriend Cheating on His Gf with Me | 4/1/2010 | Elise |
| Q: My ex, Anthony and I, dated last year for about 4 months. It was a fast, intense, but still ... A: Well he's been catered to in some degree most his life, I doubt his parents, he sounds like he had a ... | ||
| Ex-Boyfriend Cheating on His Gf with Me | 3/31/2010 | Elise |
| Q: My ex, Anthony and I, dated last year for about 4 months. It was a fast, intense, but still ... A: Yep. Thats a doozie. You know it too. I'm going to start at the basics with this one. A body loves ... | ||
| to cheat or not.. | 3/31/2010 | Elise |
| Q: . I am in a serious relationship for three years now, and I love my partner dearly. I am 21 and he ... A: Firstly, just to get this aside. You cant really waste your "youth". There is a period between 27 ... | ||
| how do i know if he's serious? | 3/25/2010 | Elise |
| Q: Ok, I probably have a really weird relationship, but my husband wants me to be with another man. ... A: My Answer must have not sent! I apologize. As you said, you two have a weird relationship. I say ... | ||
| I slept with my ex who has been dating another for 7months! | 3/23/2010 | Elise |
| Q: I still have feelings for my ex. I broke up with her 9 months ago. I also started to date others. We ... A: Things are eventually going to sour. If not in months than in a year or so. She will foolishly admit ... | ||
| Sexy Back. | 3/22/2010 | Elise |
| Q: Ok so i have been in a really commited relationship for about 2 years. Well lately i have gotten ... A: Well... if your in a committed relationship thats kind of part of the commitment. It's not really ... | ||
| I do not kow my place in this situation | 3/18/2010 | Elise |
| Q: This is a really long story so I wish you luck in following it. Last summer I started dating my ... A: Firstly, this is a good thing to remember for the future. I'm not sure how that dynamic happens but ... | ||
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