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About Melissa Durazo
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Expertise
I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.

Experience
I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......

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The school of Life. Life is all the education I have ever needed.

   

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Did that cheater truly love me, even for a moment?10/14/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I found out that my ex-bf has been two-timing me throughout the 3mths29days that we've been ...
  A: In all honesty. No, he did not truly love you. Nor, does he even love this other girl he is with. He ...
cheated early on, now pregnant and not sure whether to confront him or not10/13/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I started seeing my partner in July of 2008. We have since moved in together and are expecting our ...
  A: From this point on, the only person you need to start worrying about is your soon to be born child. ...
Betrayed10/11/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I am 23 and I have been in love with a girl for almost seven years.she has been everything for me.my ...
  A: First off, although it feels as if you are going to die....The reality is, you will over come this ...
cheating boyfriend10/6/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: ive bin wit my boyfriend 4 almst 2 years and hes bin cheating since i was pregnant,when i confronted ...
  A: This is going to sound harsh. But, it's straight to the point. If he hasn't stopped cheating on you ...
getting over it8/19/2009Mason Webb
  Q: My bf and i have been dating for almost a year now. about a month ago he was at a party and was ...
  A: You are not alone in this department. So how do you forgive him and move on. First off, as hard as ...
What should I do? :(8/10/2009Mason Webb
  Q: I am a 19 year old girl and I have been in an on and off relationship with a 20 year old guy for ...
  A: and I apologize for taking so long to get back to you, I've been traveling a bit, and just got back. ...
cheating boyfriend8/8/2009Mason Webb
  Q: i just stumbled upon your site and read the question from the lady with the unrepentant cheating ...
  A: I know what you're going through and I genuinely empathize with you; it's not an easy thing to deal ...
will he change?7/3/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: So.. Im a very understanding and forgiving person, and Ive been in a serious relationship (my first) ...
  A: Well, I do not believe that ultimatums work.....You can not force someone who isn't willing to ...
Should I work it out with son's father?7/3/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: My son's father and I have been involved on and off for the past 2 1/2 yrs. The first 1-2 months, ...
  A: This email is quite long and a bit complicated....But, I can see you are frustrated and concerned ...
Okay so now what5/11/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I'm 20 years into a marriage that was a bad choice to begin with. Over the course of the marriage ...
  A: You are welcome.... Good luck & if your relationship does comes to an end...I hope you both realize ...
I have no idea where to go from here?5/10/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 30 years old. We've been dating for 2 years. It's been quite a rough 2 ...
  A: Your first serious relationship is usually the hardest to let go.... You are too young to start off ...
3 years and an X prob?5/8/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: My boyfriend (33) and I (26) have been together for about 3 years. He is a very faithful guy never ...
  A: Ok, now, it all makes sense to me......Thank you for giving me insight into your situation. He is ...
Okay so now what5/7/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I'm 20 years into a marriage that was a bad choice to begin with. Over the course of the marriage ...
  A: First of all, in what way has your marriage been a bad choice to begin with? And, it's taken you 20 ...
3 years and an X prob?5/6/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: My boyfriend (33) and I (26) have been together for about 3 years. He is a very faithful guy never ...
  A: After reading your email.....I am going to have to agree that he hasn't really given you a reason to ...
i dont know what i want anymore5/4/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: the problem is that i still talk to my ex boyfriend who was my first love. and we both still care ...
  A: Well, there comes a time when you must take control of your life. And, leaving one man to go back to ...
My g/f does not trust me at all4/29/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: Good evening, I have been in a relationship for over two years now. While coming back from the ...
  A: Well, I don't believe you have the obligation to show her who is calling you on your cell. That is ...
HELP4/27/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he has been talking about engagement rings. I have a ...
  A: Well, it looks as if you have already made up your mind. Which shows me that you have a strong ...
What can I do to make him forgive me?4/21/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I never wanted to cheat on my boyfriend, but I ended up having an affair with my sister's friend. He ...
  A: .... I'm going to tell you that forgiveness is a very powerful thing. One can utter the words "I ...
What to do when your boyfriend told you he cheated on you?4/20/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: My boyfriend of almost to year and I are in a long distance relationship but we always talk at least ...
  A: Well, it depends on how many times he has cheated on you and with how many women this has happened ...
cheater boyfriend4/20/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: My boyfrined cheats on me all the time. i catch him and he says he will stop, but then I found out a ...
  A: At this point, sweetie...You come first. Your health comes first. And, you need to forget about ...
i want to trust again but dont want to get hurt again4/14/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: my name is Amanda and I am hoping you can help me I have been with my boyfriend two years now and ...
  A: Well, you are always going to feel like there is a risk that he will cheat on you because he cheated ...
Will he change? Is it worth waiting for?4/12/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: We dated for 3 years and we broke up because he was unfaithful and I could never trust him again ...
  A: Nothing is impossible.....Do you not believe you deserve better in your life? If we feel like we ...
trouble in paradise4/11/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: Hey Melissa, me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 2 years, the problem is, she recently ...
  A: First and foremost, you need to get to a mental state of calmness. Because, what you just wrote is ...
Is it true once a cheat always a cheat?4/6/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I am set to get married 5/30/09. My fiancee was married before & cheated on his wife @ the time ...
  A: And, he cheated on his first wife with her daughter? Not to mention he has a dating profile while he ...
help4/2/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: ive been with my girlfriend 4 , 2weeks an i feel like im just bein too clingy with her she liked me ...
  A: You need to do whatever you need to do to move on, hun..... In the long run, you will realize that ...
Love is painful3/31/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years, I love him and care for him but I'm just not ...
  A: If your new Mr. Perfect has a girlfriend, then, he isn't quite "perfect" at all, is he? I mean, what ...
help3/31/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: ive been with my girlfriend 4 , 2weeks an i feel like im just bein too clingy with her she liked me ...
  A: I hate to break it to you but, there is no "upper hand" in this situation. Being in a relationship ...
cheating/being too clingy3/30/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: i have been with my Boyfriend for four years, he just recently cheated on me. we have had problems ...
  A: The problem that I see here is that the trust in your relationship is not there. The respect isn't ...
Stuck3/21/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: Well I've been with my boyfriend on and off for about a year. When we first broke up, six months ...
  A: First and foremost, I am soooooooo sorry for my delay in replying to your email..... Well, it seems ...
Is there such a thing as a fourth chance?3/21/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: My ex-fiance wants another chance with me. He says he needs to know if that is something i want. We ...
  A: I'm going to be honest with you.....Even I miss my ex boyfriend every once in a while...I guess, you ...
Help!3/18/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: Alright I'll take this from the TOP. I am 17 years old and I met a really great guy who I am happy, ...
  A: It seems like you just answered your own question. You don't want a relationship. And, you're ...
is he cheating3/17/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: Is my man cheating? Once I can home there was a girls cell phone on the floor of our bedroom.He said ...
  A: Well, for one thing, finding a cell phone number doesn't mean he is cheating. And, if he wants sex ...
I dont know what to do or what to think?3/4/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I am 19 and I am dating a guy who is 26. I have been dating him for like five months so far, but ...
  A: I can see your concern. Let me tell you something about men. They know from the start whether or not ...
to cheat or not to cheat3/3/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: Been with my man 10 years, married 4. Adore him. Just contacted by an old crush. My big 'one that ...
  A: It's been 10 years...You have a family, a husband. We ALL have our Mr. Big......And, if we could ...
I want to cheat!3/2/2009Melissa Durazo
  Q: I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He cheated on me when our daughter was only 2 ...
  A: In all honesty? I think it is best to be honest with yourself and with your boyfriend and end this ...
Guilt12/22/2008Don
  Q: I have a lovely, sweet, gentle, caring boyfriend, who I am about to move in with. A week ago, I ...
  A: No the pain from the guilt will not overwhelm you and yes it will go away, all it takes is time. You ...
help12/12/2008Don
  Q: I have been in a relationship for 5 1/2 year with this guy on and off and we live together. I have ...
  A: Arguing everyday is more harmful to a child then his parents just breaking up. If a child sees the ...
I think my bf is cheating12/12/2008Don
  Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months now and just moved in together. He moved here ...
  A: Well I think he is cheating and you have all the proof you need in an e-mail. Why would he be ...
Cheating girlfriend....12/10/2008Don
  Q: Ugh, i feel quite awkward talking on here, but here it goes. im 20 years old, and im fairly well ...
  A: If it is true that your friend slept with her you need to find a new girl and a new friend because ...
Do not want to cheat and Confused!!!12/10/2008Don
  Q: I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. Recently, a guy I used to date ...
  A: If you don't want to cheat, then you definitely need to stop talking to Mr. X. But to me it sounds ...

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