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| will he change? | 7/3/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: So.. Im a very understanding and forgiving person, and Ive been in a serious relationship (my first) ...
A: Well, I do not believe that ultimatums work.....You can not force someone who isn't willing to ...
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| Should I work it out with son's father? | 7/3/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My son's father and I have been involved on and off for the past 2 1/2 yrs. The first 1-2 months, ...
A: This email is quite long and a bit complicated....But, I can see you are frustrated and concerned ...
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| Okay so now what | 5/11/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I'm 20 years into a marriage that was a bad choice to begin with. Over the course of the marriage ...
A: You are welcome.... Good luck & if your relationship does comes to an end...I hope you both realize ...
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| I have no idea where to go from here? | 5/10/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 30 years old. We've been dating for 2 years. It's been quite a rough 2 ...
A: Your first serious relationship is usually the hardest to let go.... You are too young to start off ...
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| 3 years and an X prob? | 5/8/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My boyfriend (33) and I (26) have been together for about 3 years. He is a very faithful guy never ...
A: Ok, now, it all makes sense to me......Thank you for giving me insight into your situation. He is ...
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| Okay so now what | 5/7/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I'm 20 years into a marriage that was a bad choice to begin with. Over the course of the marriage ...
A: First of all, in what way has your marriage been a bad choice to begin with? And, it's taken you 20 ...
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| 3 years and an X prob? | 5/6/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My boyfriend (33) and I (26) have been together for about 3 years. He is a very faithful guy never ...
A: After reading your email.....I am going to have to agree that he hasn't really given you a reason to ...
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| i dont know what i want anymore | 5/4/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: the problem is that i still talk to my ex boyfriend who was my first love. and we both still care ...
A: Well, there comes a time when you must take control of your life. And, leaving one man to go back to ...
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| My g/f does not trust me at all | 4/29/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Good evening, I have been in a relationship for over two years now. While coming back from the ...
A: Well, I don't believe you have the obligation to show her who is calling you on your cell. That is ...
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| HELP | 4/27/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he has been talking about engagement rings. I have a ...
A: Well, it looks as if you have already made up your mind. Which shows me that you have a strong ...
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| What can I do to make him forgive me? | 4/21/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I never wanted to cheat on my boyfriend, but I ended up having an affair with my sister's friend. He ...
A: .... I'm going to tell you that forgiveness is a very powerful thing. One can utter the words "I ...
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| What to do when your boyfriend told you he cheated on you? | 4/20/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My boyfriend of almost to year and I are in a long distance relationship but we always talk at least ...
A: Well, it depends on how many times he has cheated on you and with how many women this has happened ...
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| cheater boyfriend | 4/20/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My boyfrined cheats on me all the time. i catch him and he says he will stop, but then I found out a ...
A: At this point, sweetie...You come first. Your health comes first. And, you need to forget about ...
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| i want to trust again but dont want to get hurt again | 4/14/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: my name is Amanda and I am hoping you can help me I have been with my boyfriend two years now and ...
A: Well, you are always going to feel like there is a risk that he will cheat on you because he cheated ...
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| Will he change? Is it worth waiting for? | 4/12/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: We dated for 3 years and we broke up because he was unfaithful and I could never trust him again ...
A: Nothing is impossible.....Do you not believe you deserve better in your life? If we feel like we ...
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| trouble in paradise | 4/11/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Hey Melissa, me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 2 years, the problem is, she recently ...
A: First and foremost, you need to get to a mental state of calmness. Because, what you just wrote is ...
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| Is it true once a cheat always a cheat? | 4/6/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I am set to get married 5/30/09. My fiancee was married before & cheated on his wife @ the time ...
A: And, he cheated on his first wife with her daughter? Not to mention he has a dating profile while he ...
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| help | 4/2/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: ive been with my girlfriend 4 , 2weeks an i feel like im just bein too clingy with her she liked me ...
A: You need to do whatever you need to do to move on, hun..... In the long run, you will realize that ...
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| Love is painful | 3/31/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years, I love him and care for him but I'm just not ...
A: If your new Mr. Perfect has a girlfriend, then, he isn't quite "perfect" at all, is he? I mean, what ...
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| help | 3/31/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: ive been with my girlfriend 4 , 2weeks an i feel like im just bein too clingy with her she liked me ...
A: I hate to break it to you but, there is no "upper hand" in this situation. Being in a relationship ...
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| cheating/being too clingy | 3/30/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: i have been with my Boyfriend for four years, he just recently cheated on me. we have had problems ...
A: The problem that I see here is that the trust in your relationship is not there. The respect isn't ...
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| Stuck | 3/21/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Well I've been with my boyfriend on and off for about a year. When we first broke up, six months ...
A: First and foremost, I am soooooooo sorry for my delay in replying to your email..... Well, it seems ...
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| Is there such a thing as a fourth chance? | 3/21/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My ex-fiance wants another chance with me. He says he needs to know if that is something i want. We ...
A: I'm going to be honest with you.....Even I miss my ex boyfriend every once in a while...I guess, you ...
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| Help! | 3/18/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Alright I'll take this from the TOP. I am 17 years old and I met a really great guy who I am happy, ...
A: It seems like you just answered your own question. You don't want a relationship. And, you're ...
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| is he cheating | 3/17/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Is my man cheating? Once I can home there was a girls cell phone on the floor of our bedroom.He said ...
A: Well, for one thing, finding a cell phone number doesn't mean he is cheating. And, if he wants sex ...
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| I dont know what to do or what to think? | 3/4/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I am 19 and I am dating a guy who is 26. I have been dating him for like five months so far, but ...
A: I can see your concern. Let me tell you something about men. They know from the start whether or not ...
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| to cheat or not to cheat | 3/3/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Been with my man 10 years, married 4. Adore him. Just contacted by an old crush. My big 'one that ...
A: It's been 10 years...You have a family, a husband. We ALL have our Mr. Big......And, if we could ...
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| I want to cheat! | 3/2/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He cheated on me when our daughter was only 2 ...
A: In all honesty? I think it is best to be honest with yourself and with your boyfriend and end this ...
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| Guilt | 12/22/2008 | Don |
Q: I have a lovely, sweet, gentle, caring boyfriend, who I am about to move in with. A week ago, I ...
A: No the pain from the guilt will not overwhelm you and yes it will go away, all it takes is time. You ...
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| help | 12/12/2008 | Don |
Q: I have been in a relationship for 5 1/2 year with this guy on and off and we live together. I have ...
A: Arguing everyday is more harmful to a child then his parents just breaking up. If a child sees the ...
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| I think my bf is cheating | 12/12/2008 | Don |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months now and just moved in together. He moved here ...
A: Well I think he is cheating and you have all the proof you need in an e-mail. Why would he be ...
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| Cheating girlfriend.... | 12/10/2008 | Don |
Q: Ugh, i feel quite awkward talking on here, but here it goes. im 20 years old, and im fairly well ...
A: If it is true that your friend slept with her you need to find a new girl and a new friend because ...
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| Do not want to cheat and Confused!!! | 12/10/2008 | Don |
Q: I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. Recently, a guy I used to date ...
A: If you don't want to cheat, then you definitely need to stop talking to Mr. X. But to me it sounds ...
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| He cheated but I still like him? | 12/6/2008 | Don |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a month now and last night he took me aside and told me how the ...
A: If you feel he's genuine and he's going be honest then take him back. I do subscribe to once a ...
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| i think i am the other woman (20 y/o) | 11/25/2008 | Don |
Q: We are sorry, but Jen wasn't able to answer yourOk...so i have this friend...and two years ago when ...
A: It's not cheating unless the two of you are doing something sexual, if you are just hanging out as ...
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| I've lost all trust in him and I'm miserable | 11/24/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Lets just start with alittle background information. He's 29 and I'm 22. We met when he was ...
A: Trust is the #1 important thing in a relationship..Without trust, you have nothing to base your ...
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| cheating both ways | 11/23/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: im his mistress, i feel im cheated so i cheated, now he doesnt forgive me. He was my boss,i always ...
A: Ask yourself this question......Why would you want someone who would cheat on his wife, someone he ...
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| Texting and Cheating | 11/21/2008 | Don |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend on and off for about 3 years. I have been unhappy for about a year, ...
A: Texting somebody and hugging them isn't cheating so you haven't crossed the line yet. If you ...
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| Should i?? | 11/18/2008 | Don |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months now and he is great! we are amazing! we get ...
A: If you really want to be with your boyfriend and really make the relationship work you should tell ...
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| He cheats on his girlfriend with me and i love him | 11/18/2008 | Don |
Q: To cut the length of this mad story: we were together for 7 months on an internet relationship ...
A: I wouldn't tell his girlfriend because that's not going get him to come back to you. You need to cut ...
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