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SubjectDate AskedExpert
regret on cheating11/22/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: I'm a 28 year old male and cheated on my girlfriend with an old college fling. It was dumb since it ...
  A: I assume you spilled your guts to her and explained what happened. Ask her what she wants to do. ...
cheating boyfriend11/2/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: i have been in a relationship for two year and my boyfriend is heating with a girl next door i ...
  A: In this situation, you should talk to your man and ask him who he wants. If he says you, then show ...
He Cheated on me10/22/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: ok so i've been dating my boyfriend for seven monthsand we were perfect, like i thought nothing ...
  A: You are still very young and their are plenty of men out there. If it was once, then a second ...
Found an email to an ex-girlfriend10/22/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: This email totally fell on my lap... He left his email account not signed out and thinking it was ...
  A: Men often start to get bored in a relationship, and look for an outlet to fulfill there desires. ...
Boyfriend cheated after 3 years10/20/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: So I have being on this relationship for more than 3 years, about a week ago I had a sleep over his ...
  A: The best way for you to regain the trust you had is for him to prove himself to you. You have to ...
Boyfriend cheated after 3 years10/19/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: So I have being on this relationship for more than 3 years, about a week ago I had a sleep over his ...
  A: It is one of those things that you have to go with your heart. If you think he can change, and his ...
I found videos of her having sex!!10/9/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: So... I had an idea my girlfriend was cheating on me so I did some looking around and got access to ...
  A: Well if you enjoy watching it, let it continue. Telling her you know would ruin the taboo aspect ...
Confused10/8/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: so I have an issue which bothers me a lot concerning my boyfriend. We are both (in my opinion) very ...
  A: Maybe you should experiment with your boyfriend first. There are all kinds of different positions ...
Obsessed and hurting10/8/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: I'm 50, have been married almost 20 years and my husband feels I am being afflicted with menopause ...
  A: Discuss it with this man and see what he is looking for, if it is just sex, then don't bother. It ...
Relationships10/7/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: I'm in a bumpy relationship, I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me with this girl that I hate. ...
  A: No, that would make you no better then him. If the relationship was bumpy before he cheated on you, ...
Can't understand why!9/30/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: I've been in a relationship with my best friend for 3 years now, and not only I love her, but we ...
  A: Hmm this is a tough situation. I would sya if your really love her then you would respect her ...
Need advice9/30/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years - I'm 31 and she's 23. I became ...
  A: It sounds like you are doing the right thing. You seem to love her, and she loves you as well, and ...
Being cheated on?9/21/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have a two month old child ...
  A: All you really need to do is catch him somehow, but really, you already got your answer. It is ...
was that permission to cheat.9/20/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: ok not sure where to go with this BUT my long term partner of 4+years made a weird statement after ...
  A: I understand completely, but you have to be sympathetic to her as well. She is carrying your child, ...
was that permission to cheat.9/19/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: ok not sure where to go with this BUT my long term partner of 4+years made a weird statement after ...
  A: A lot of the time, women become offended by there partner's watching porn. My opinion, you should ...
Is it or isnt it..9/17/2010Kate Rosling
  Q: I have been on and off again w a guy I met back n may. but recently we got back together.. He has ...
  A: I think he is just trying to show how much he loves you. You always have to give them the benefit ...
How to forgive a cheating boyfriend4/28/2010Elise
  Q: I don't know whether talking to a girl over the phone for about an hour couple of days a week called ...
  A: This must be the season for bad behavior because my questions are getting impossible to keep up ...
Wanting to cheat-desparate fro discretion4/19/2010Elise
  Q: I want to cheat on my husband with a man (lets call him Barry) I have known for over a year. Barry ...
  A: You are definitely a thinker! I hope the bug net thing works out. I really can't think of anything ...
help with a partner who has cheated4/19/2010Elise
  Q: I was with my partner for just over a year and we split up for about 10 months. we decided to give ...
  A: There is really no way to make you care less. You can just wear bored of the act as you move forward ...
Wanting to cheat-desparate fro discretion4/19/2010Elise
  Q: I want to cheat on my husband with a man (lets call him Barry) I have known for over a year. Barry ...
  A: Ok, it's good to know the surrounding area better. The horse thing is great! If its such a small ...
Wanting to cheat-desparate fro discretion4/19/2010Elise
  Q: I want to cheat on my husband with a man (lets call him Barry) I have known for over a year. Barry ...
  A: The physiological game is much more important than maintaining identity. (Of course maintaining your ...
Young Love Forever?4/15/2010Elise
  Q: my name is Alex, and I'm 16 and my partner is 17. We've been "together" for about 7-8 months now. ...
  A: What I'm trying to say in a nice way... is it doesn't really matter. One day you'll look back and ...
Thoroughly confused, and not even sure where to start4/14/2010Elise
  Q: I'm 35, married for about 15 years now. My wife was my first time, and so far my only one. We're ...
  A: If you are SURE this is the path you want to take, I can help. I'm here to answer questions right? ...
I'm about to cheat on my husband4/14/2010Elise
  Q: I met a man who had 2 kids & a girlfriend, for this reason we could not commit to each other so we ...
  A: Wowzers. Well. The vagina wall is made to expand when penetrated, so unless you get a brutal beating ...
Young Love Forever?4/14/2010Elise
  Q: my name is Alex, and I'm 16 and my partner is 17. We've been "together" for about 7-8 months now. ...
  A: I tend to decline younger questions like this because the comprehension simply isn't there. But you ...
Internet 'cheating'4/12/2010Elise
  Q: When is internet cheating not cheating? I am still with my partner but last year found emails ...
  A: I honestly didn't catch a "red flag" until half way thru when you said he said "it's all in your ...
Need clarity4/10/2010Elise
  Q: I am in a difficult situation but will try to keep my question short. I am a married woman with ...
  A: The address is a big one for sure. The rest could be just normal flirtation. Does he do that with ...
At an impasse4/9/2010Elise
  Q: I’ve been with my partner now for 6 almost 7 years. I am 26 and he is 40. We’ve been through highs ...
  A: I'm sorry, this one is very hard, I try to see all the sides and offer different ideas but I can ...
Convinced me of an open relationship4/9/2010Elise
  Q: Hey, I posted a couple of days ago about me being tempted to cheat - your feedback was extremely ...
  A: That's the hard part. Even for a well spoken and confident person on the subject... it is a hard ...
Need clarity4/8/2010Elise
  Q: I am in a difficult situation but will try to keep my question short. I am a married woman with ...
  A: I love an open relationship! Congratulations for finding a man and being open to enjoying life to ...
Tempted to Cheat4/7/2010Elise
  Q: Im 21 this june and my partner of two years 27. He has a two year old son who iv been around since ...
  A: Amy, The thing is, there is always going to be another guy if your accessible to it. Perhaps the ...
Curious and Confused4/2/2010Elise
  Q: I'm married to a great guy that I deeply love very much. He makes me happy and we are a great ...
  A: You know, an open relationship is better than the "swinging" and the picking a date. It's less shock ...
Curious and Confused4/1/2010Elise
  Q: I'm married to a great guy that I deeply love very much. He makes me happy and we are a great ...
  A: I've got to warn you. I get very very wordy on this subject. I'll keep it short. But it truly is, my ...
Ex-Boyfriend Cheating on His Gf with Me4/1/2010Elise
  Q: My ex, Anthony and I, dated last year for about 4 months. It was a fast, intense, but still ...
  A: Well he's been catered to in some degree most his life, I doubt his parents, he sounds like he had a ...
Ex-Boyfriend Cheating on His Gf with Me3/31/2010Elise
  Q: My ex, Anthony and I, dated last year for about 4 months. It was a fast, intense, but still ...
  A: Yep. Thats a doozie. You know it too. I'm going to start at the basics with this one. A body loves ...
to cheat or not..3/31/2010Elise
  Q: . I am in a serious relationship for three years now, and I love my partner dearly. I am 21 and he ...
  A: Firstly, just to get this aside. You cant really waste your "youth". There is a period between 27 ...
how do i know if he's serious?3/25/2010Elise
  Q: Ok, I probably have a really weird relationship, but my husband wants me to be with another man. ...
  A: My Answer must have not sent! I apologize. As you said, you two have a weird relationship. I say ...
I slept with my ex who has been dating another for 7months!3/23/2010Elise
  Q: I still have feelings for my ex. I broke up with her 9 months ago. I also started to date others. We ...
  A: Things are eventually going to sour. If not in months than in a year or so. She will foolishly admit ...
Sexy Back.3/22/2010Elise
  Q: Ok so i have been in a really commited relationship for about 2 years. Well lately i have gotten ...
  A: Well... if your in a committed relationship thats kind of part of the commitment. It's not really ...
I do not kow my place in this situation3/18/2010Elise
  Q: This is a really long story so I wish you luck in following it. Last summer I started dating my ...
  A: Firstly, this is a good thing to remember for the future. I'm not sure how that dynamic happens but ...

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