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| stuck | 11/23/2009 | Elise |
Q: I am dating this guy that I like, we have been on and off for about 5 months now and a few weeks ago ...
A: mmmm well to make a guy cheat, you really need a girl on the inside to seduce him. Usually either a ...
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| cheating | 11/22/2009 | Elise |
Q: I'm sorry that my english isn't very good but i'll try to explane myself the best i can. I'm 45 and ...
A: Your English is not bad! If you hadn't mentioned I would say you type better than most of my ...
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| I'm cheating on my wife but I think my lover is cheating on me | 11/19/2009 | Elise |
Q: I'm married and also have a lover and recently I think that my lover is cheating on me. My concern ...
A: Well mistress or not, if it wasn't agreed to be exclusive she will pull that card at the very least. ...
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| I'm cheating on my wife but I think my lover is cheating on me | 11/18/2009 | Elise |
Q: I'm married and also have a lover and recently I think that my lover is cheating on me. My concern ...
A: When you say she... do you mean your wife or your lover? What I mean to say is if your lover and you ...
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| I'm cheating on my wife but I think my lover is cheating on me | 11/18/2009 | Elise |
Q: I'm married and also have a lover and recently I think that my lover is cheating on me. My concern ...
A: A lot of people say they just want to know the truth and don't care. But really you do care or you ...
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| is he cheating | 11/18/2009 | Elise |
Q: Right now I am 7 months pregnant by my boyfriend that I just made a year with this month. He isn't ...
A: Oh honey! That is a rough spot! There are heavier thing's weighing on this subject than just... ...
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| Partner is so far away! New guy is so close. | 11/17/2009 | Elise |
Q: My first serious relationship lasted two years. (We were both 18 when we got together.) We are ...
A: Wow! How long have you two been apart? Do you and your boyfriend talk a lot? My thoughts on this. ...
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| How to handle being cheated on. | 11/10/2009 | Elise |
Q: I am 20 years old and have been dating this 30yr. old man for about 4 months now. Him and I have ...
A: I clarified the direct advice option just because I didn't want to step on Melissa's toes. But I ...
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| move in or move out? | 10/19/2009 | Elise |
Q: . my boyfriend (ish-we are taking a break) and have only been together for 7 months. 3 of which he ...
A: I'm very sorry to hear about your circumstance. When it comes to men that are bad for us, I take a ...
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| How to handle being cheated on. | 10/19/2009 | Elise |
Q: I am 20 years old and have been dating this 30yr. old man for about 4 months now. Him and I have ...
A: I know this is addressed toward Melissa, It shows she is on vacation until the end of the month. To ...
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| A lie that finally came out | 10/16/2009 | Elise |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 14 months now, and i found out a week ago that a year ago ...
A: The important thing to do is consider where your at with it. Is this something you can overcome? Is ...
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| Did that cheater truly love me, even for a moment? | 10/14/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I found out that my ex-bf has been two-timing me throughout the 3mths29days that we've been ...
A: In all honesty. No, he did not truly love you. Nor, does he even love this other girl he is with. He ...
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| cheated early on, now pregnant and not sure whether to confront him or not | 10/13/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I started seeing my partner in July of 2008. We have since moved in together and are expecting our ...
A: From this point on, the only person you need to start worrying about is your soon to be born child. ...
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| Betrayed | 10/11/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I am 23 and I have been in love with a girl for almost seven years.she has been everything for me.my ...
A: First off, although it feels as if you are going to die....The reality is, you will over come this ...
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| cheating boyfriend | 10/6/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: ive bin wit my boyfriend 4 almst 2 years and hes bin cheating since i was pregnant,when i confronted ...
A: This is going to sound harsh. But, it's straight to the point. If he hasn't stopped cheating on you ...
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| getting over it | 8/19/2009 | Mason Webb |
Q: My bf and i have been dating for almost a year now. about a month ago he was at a party and was ...
A: You are not alone in this department. So how do you forgive him and move on. First off, as hard as ...
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| What should I do? :( | 8/10/2009 | Mason Webb |
Q: I am a 19 year old girl and I have been in an on and off relationship with a 20 year old guy for ...
A: and I apologize for taking so long to get back to you, I've been traveling a bit, and just got back. ...
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| cheating boyfriend | 8/8/2009 | Mason Webb |
Q: i just stumbled upon your site and read the question from the lady with the unrepentant cheating ...
A: I know what you're going through and I genuinely empathize with you; it's not an easy thing to deal ...
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| will he change? | 7/3/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: So.. Im a very understanding and forgiving person, and Ive been in a serious relationship (my first) ...
A: Well, I do not believe that ultimatums work.....You can not force someone who isn't willing to ...
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| Should I work it out with son's father? | 7/3/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My son's father and I have been involved on and off for the past 2 1/2 yrs. The first 1-2 months, ...
A: This email is quite long and a bit complicated....But, I can see you are frustrated and concerned ...
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| Okay so now what | 5/11/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I'm 20 years into a marriage that was a bad choice to begin with. Over the course of the marriage ...
A: You are welcome.... Good luck & if your relationship does comes to an end...I hope you both realize ...
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| I have no idea where to go from here? | 5/10/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 30 years old. We've been dating for 2 years. It's been quite a rough 2 ...
A: Your first serious relationship is usually the hardest to let go.... You are too young to start off ...
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| 3 years and an X prob? | 5/8/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My boyfriend (33) and I (26) have been together for about 3 years. He is a very faithful guy never ...
A: Ok, now, it all makes sense to me......Thank you for giving me insight into your situation. He is ...
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| Okay so now what | 5/7/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I'm 20 years into a marriage that was a bad choice to begin with. Over the course of the marriage ...
A: First of all, in what way has your marriage been a bad choice to begin with? And, it's taken you 20 ...
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| 3 years and an X prob? | 5/6/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My boyfriend (33) and I (26) have been together for about 3 years. He is a very faithful guy never ...
A: After reading your email.....I am going to have to agree that he hasn't really given you a reason to ...
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| i dont know what i want anymore | 5/4/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: the problem is that i still talk to my ex boyfriend who was my first love. and we both still care ...
A: Well, there comes a time when you must take control of your life. And, leaving one man to go back to ...
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| My g/f does not trust me at all | 4/29/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Good evening, I have been in a relationship for over two years now. While coming back from the ...
A: Well, I don't believe you have the obligation to show her who is calling you on your cell. That is ...
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| HELP | 4/27/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he has been talking about engagement rings. I have a ...
A: Well, it looks as if you have already made up your mind. Which shows me that you have a strong ...
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| What can I do to make him forgive me? | 4/21/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I never wanted to cheat on my boyfriend, but I ended up having an affair with my sister's friend. He ...
A: .... I'm going to tell you that forgiveness is a very powerful thing. One can utter the words "I ...
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| What to do when your boyfriend told you he cheated on you? | 4/20/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My boyfriend of almost to year and I are in a long distance relationship but we always talk at least ...
A: Well, it depends on how many times he has cheated on you and with how many women this has happened ...
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| cheater boyfriend | 4/20/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My boyfrined cheats on me all the time. i catch him and he says he will stop, but then I found out a ...
A: At this point, sweetie...You come first. Your health comes first. And, you need to forget about ...
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| i want to trust again but dont want to get hurt again | 4/14/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: my name is Amanda and I am hoping you can help me I have been with my boyfriend two years now and ...
A: Well, you are always going to feel like there is a risk that he will cheat on you because he cheated ...
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| Will he change? Is it worth waiting for? | 4/12/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: We dated for 3 years and we broke up because he was unfaithful and I could never trust him again ...
A: Nothing is impossible.....Do you not believe you deserve better in your life? If we feel like we ...
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| trouble in paradise | 4/11/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Hey Melissa, me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 2 years, the problem is, she recently ...
A: First and foremost, you need to get to a mental state of calmness. Because, what you just wrote is ...
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| Is it true once a cheat always a cheat? | 4/6/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I am set to get married 5/30/09. My fiancee was married before & cheated on his wife @ the time ...
A: And, he cheated on his first wife with her daughter? Not to mention he has a dating profile while he ...
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| help | 4/2/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: ive been with my girlfriend 4 , 2weeks an i feel like im just bein too clingy with her she liked me ...
A: You need to do whatever you need to do to move on, hun..... In the long run, you will realize that ...
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| Love is painful | 3/31/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years, I love him and care for him but I'm just not ...
A: If your new Mr. Perfect has a girlfriend, then, he isn't quite "perfect" at all, is he? I mean, what ...
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| help | 3/31/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: ive been with my girlfriend 4 , 2weeks an i feel like im just bein too clingy with her she liked me ...
A: I hate to break it to you but, there is no "upper hand" in this situation. Being in a relationship ...
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| cheating/being too clingy | 3/30/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: i have been with my Boyfriend for four years, he just recently cheated on me. we have had problems ...
A: The problem that I see here is that the trust in your relationship is not there. The respect isn't ...
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| Stuck | 3/21/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Well I've been with my boyfriend on and off for about a year. When we first broke up, six months ...
A: First and foremost, I am soooooooo sorry for my delay in replying to your email..... Well, it seems ...
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