Expert: Don - 1/24/2008

Question
I’ve been with my boyfriend two years,

we’ve had loads of ups and downs, but we love eachother so much.
he’s the kind that likes his space, and we don’t see eachother much, it’s how he likes it and i respect that,
but there’s been times in our relationship where things have got tricky for me, once i was ready to split with him because communication between us had got so bad, i ended up cheating on him. another time a similar thing happened.
I love him so much, and for the first time in ages i feel like things are really working between us, i regret what happened in the past, it was stupid and both times it felt wrong. but i can’t escape it now.
He’s a little possessive and if i tell him the truth we will be OVER.
but i feel so guilty.
i have absolutely NO contact with either men anymore. i blocked everything out of my life from them, but there’s still a chance he could find out via myspace, facebook etc.

any suggestions? do i delete these websites? do i stop worrying and just be happy? i just don’t know. i feel like i’m always living in fear of losing him.

Answer
It's the past, you have to let it go. Stop thinking about what happened then and start thinking about what is happening now and what will happen in the future. If you're finally happy with your boyfriend then don't do anything to mess it up, just forget what you did and make sure you don't do it again.

If you think he might find out through myspace or facebook, just delete those pages and move on.

Stop worrying about it, it's in the past, so let the past die and live for the future.