How to Deal With Cheaters/trust

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I think my wife cheated on on me. I know she wanted to and tried to. She signed up for an online dating service and tried to hook up with somebody with a big ego. She tells me to get viagra and "get over it'. How do I get over it?
I just want to trust somebody.

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You don't have to get over it, don't allow your wife to bully you into forgetting what she did. She was wrong for violating your marriage and your trust and you shouldn't have to get over it. Don't let your wife bully you, put her in her place about her cheating ways. Tell her you aren't going for it and if she can't be faithful she can hit the door. Stand up for yourself man, or she's just going walk all over you.

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