Expert: Don - 1/24/2008

Question
I have been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years, and I really do love her.  We've been talking about marriage and I will probably propose to her in the near future.  The only problem is that I haven't been with that many girls and she's pretty boring in bed.  Sometimes she spices it up, but not usually.  I really want to get something else before I make a huge commitment, because I definitely won't afterwards.  The question is, there's this girl that I recently connected with from my past, and I really want to get with her, because she is leaving to move to another state in a couple of weeks.  How can I do it and get away with it, and do you think it is safe to get with her?  She's met my girlfriend before through myspace, but never talked to her.  BTW she is probably one of the most gorgeous girls I've ever met!

Answer
It all depends on what you think of this girl you are planning to cheat with. If you think she is the type that will get an emotional connection with you and be upset if it can only be a sexual thing then don't get with her because she'd be more likely to tell your girlfriend about you cheating on her.

If you think you can trust her, then go ahead and cheat on your girlfriend with this girl, just make sure you sleep with her in a hotel room or at her place and not at your own place so that she won't leave in evidence behind.