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My boyfriend leaves like three days at a time and he says that he was in jail but refuses to tell me where. I go and look in the car and my things are in the trunk usually my things are left where they are. This time he took my shoes and perfume out and put them in the trunk. When he left he had cologne on and was dressed and everything it was like he was getting ready to go to a party or something he said he has to go pay his momas bill not late at night he thinks i am stupid, and the next day he came home late and had different clothes on. I just know he is cheating, and his phone rings of the hook like crazy and he doesn't answer it at all he says that he doesn't know who it is calling him. He gets mad because i refuse sex from him and its all because i don't know where he has been. What do you think i need some type of relief or questions i should ask him but i can't ask him nothing because he gets defensive when i ask him questions and that not good please help me... Thank you Ashley
Stop asking him questions and just break up with him. It's obviously that he is cheating on you so why waste your time trying to catch him when it's clear he is doing it. Plus he appears to be mean to you and isn't treating you properly. Why would you want to stay with him?
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| Comment | Thank you for the suggestion, it seems like i always get cheated on and don't know why... So i gave him a suggestion that since its his ex-girlfriend he wants and has un finished business with since he broke up with her years ago, and now wants her back. I asked him why would you drag me into a relationship if this is how you felt about your ex-girlfriend you broke up years agp because you couldn't deal with your father's death. First love he calls it. So i told him we can be friends and you can be with her so you won't feel like you have to make an excuss to leave but then he want his cake and eat it too. He wants both of us and i am not getting down with that at all lol. So this was very helpfull to challenge his mind and say enough is enough thank you... Ash | ||
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