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I've been with my lover for 16 years and his wife finally found out. My lovers wife refuse to leave him and we are both stuck. We have two children together. One that is 2 and one that is 6 months. He doesn't pay child suport but buys diapers and stuff for the children when ever. He had no parental rights. I love him so much, but I don't know if I should take my mom's offer. She is willing to let me stay with her and buy me a condo where she lives but that is 1000 miles away. I don't know what I want to do. I want to go but I want to stay and hope I can be with him.

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I think you should take your mom up on here offer. This guy is never going be with only you. If he hasn't left his wife in the 16 years the two of you have been messing around, he'll never leave her. You are wasting your time, move with your mom and start something new.

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