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I will answer any and all questions when it comes to catching a cheater or ways to get away with cheating.

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I have successfully cheated in 10 out of 10 relationships without ever being caught, so I know all the signs of a person who is cheating and I also know how not to be caught. So if you need help in getting away with cheating or if you suspect your bf/gf or spouse of cheating and want help spotting the signs of a cheater I'm your man.

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How to Cheat On Your Partner/ Deal With Cheaters - He cheats on his girlfriend with me and i love him


Expert: Don - 11/18/2008

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To cut the length of this mad story: we were together for 7 months on an internet relationship because we lived in different countries whilst i was doing my degree in the UK.
We had endless Skype chats but at some point i decided i was loosing sense of reality because i spent 19 hours online with him, no friends, nothing. I started going out with my fellow flatmates and met a wonderful guy, we kissed and spent a night together. The following day i told my long-distance boyfriend i cheated on him and wanted to split. he begged me to get back to him but i wouldn`t listen. 5 months later i returned home after |Graduation and met my ex boyfriend. I remembered his touch, his look, his kisses...and fell for him all over again. we spent a week together every day and then one evening he told me he has a girlfriend. i was devastated. I knew it was only fair after what iv done but i felt i fell in love with him again and it was painfull to leave him. i tried to keep myself away from him but he would call, text, skype me every day. sometimes we meet, have an occasional sex and enjoy it. but i know he does it just as an animal, no feelings, no even tender looks. i asked him to get back to me he refused, he said he loves his girl, BUT WHY DOES HE THEN CHEAT ON HER!? i can never say no when he calls me because he does it once in 7-10 days, by that time my anger vanishes and i miss him like crazy!
what shall i do? shall i tell his Girlfriend about it?

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I wouldn't tell his girlfriend because that's not going get him to come back to you. You need to cut him off because he is using you and you're just letting him. If you know he only calls you for sex and refuses to get back with you, then why waste your time letting him just sleep with you and return to his girlfriend. You have to get rid of this guy, I know you love him but he doesn't love you and as long as you stay with him and give him sex for nothing, you're just going get hurt more.

Leave this guy alone.

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