Expert: Don - 11/4/2008

Question
I cheated on my boyfriend a year ago. He found out from people at school a couple days later (the guy I cheated on him with told people)I denied it for a long time till he told me if I told him the truth he would let it go and wouldn't break up with me. Well finally he got it out of me because it was killing me. Well he lied because he did break up with me but I begged him to take me back because I really do love him. So he took me back then broke up with me and we were on and off for a while. Well I got pregnant by him and he denied it as his kid so we had to get back togeather because I was pregnant by his kid. But 4 months later I had a miscarage and the only reason he was with me was because I was going to have his baby. Anyway we are still togeather but he brings it up once in a while. I'm so afraid he is going to leave me. Last weekend he thought my discharge was cum and that brought back up the whole cheating thing again he thought I had sex with the same guy just before he picked me up. I told him it was discharge but he didn't believe me. How can I get it through to him that I won't ever cheat on him again.
Ps. He tells me I don't show enough affection toward him. How can I show him more affection?

Answer
The only thing you can do to help him know you won't ever cheat again is to show him you're not going cheat on him by not doing it. Also you have to give him time to believe you, every person forgives when they are ready, he just might not be ready to forgive you yet. So just have some patience and keep not cheating and over time, he'll start to forgive and trust you more.

As far as being more affection, kiss him more, hug more, hold hands more often, tell him you love him more. Just show more emotion to him in general.