About Don Expertise I will answer any and all questions when it comes to catching a cheater or ways to get away with cheating.
Experience I have successfully cheated in 10 out of 10 relationships without ever being caught, so I know all the signs of a person who is cheating and I also know how not to be caught. So if you need help in getting away with cheating or if you suspect your bf/gf or spouse of cheating and want help spotting the signs of a cheater I'm your man.
Question Hello,
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Ok...so i have this friend...and two years ago when we were both freshmen, we had a one night drunken hook up that i wound up taking his virginity.
we stayed very close friends telling each other everything...he tells me two years ago he's crazy about me and asks me out...
being an idiot i say no...and continue on my destructive path until i get my ass handed to me bc of booze and drugs and my parents gave me an ultimatum.
in that next year i did aa and rehab, and my friend stood by my side supporting and loving me. he stood there while i ran into other guys' arms every night. but still loved me all the same, and maybe more each time i came back to him even more broken then the last time. always with a smile, open arms, and a shoulder to cry on.
until 9 months ago when he falls off the radar.
he reemerges, with a girlfriend who is 3 or 4 years his senior, at a ball hosted by my college, and i catch my first heartbreaking glimpse of them. I go home over the summer...thinking that in the fall they will be through. no luck. they are still going strong, and to make it worse she is threatened by me, and doesn't let him see me....so we have been sneaking around hangout....a few hours in the library or a few movies at my place after class.
This was ok until tonight while texting i realized i really love him. so while talking we begin playing 20 questions. until he reveals that he secretly wished we were together since i went through rehab and basically grew up. now i'm confused and i feel like i am the other woman.
is this cheating?
what should i do? try to win him back to the good side?
and if so how????
please help my mangled heart....
(we are both 20)
Answer It's not cheating unless the two of you are doing something sexual, if you are just hanging out as friends, it's fine.
As far as winning him back just tell him how you feel, let him know you love him and that you are also a different person and not the same one you were before going to AA. Let him know that now you are ready for a relationship with him. Make sure you tell him that you aren't trying to steal him from his girlfriend but you would love to be more than friends.
