Expert: Don - 12/6/2008

Question
I have been with my boyfriend for a month now and last night he took me aside and told me how the first week we were dating he had sex with another girl. He said it was a mistake and he thought that if he just ignored her from then on he wouldn't have to lose me. But he said that he has gained many feelings towards me that he didn't want to hurt me. He told me to leave him and how i deserved so much better, but i told him no. I still really like him, and since we had only been dating a week i didn't expect him to be totally committed by then anyway. I told him that because its only been a month were not in too deep to start over. He even cried when I told him that, and he took me back. Once a cheater always a cheater isn't necessarily true. I know people can change if they really want to I ha vent always been a saint in my past so I am living proof of that. I just want to know if you think I am making an alright decision or not. Please help.

Answer
If you feel he's genuine and he's going be honest then take him back.

I do subscribe to once a cheater always a cheater but that doesn't make it true, people can change but you have to make sure you let him know it's the last chance if he does it again you have to cut him off.