Expert: Don - 12/10/2008

Question
I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. Recently, a guy I used to date contacted me and he invited me over to place to "catch up". At first, I thought it was nice to interact with again and establish a friendship between us. I am getting the idea that he wants to give "US" another try! I love my boyfriend, but I am starting to think what if I give it another chance with my x! I dont want to cheat and I am very confused! should I stop talking to my x?

Answer
If you don't want to cheat, then you definitely need to stop talking to Mr. X. But to me it sounds like you do want to cheat that maybe you aren't happy with your boyfriend or totally over the other guy. If you're happy with your current guy then cut X out if you aren't then give him a try.