Expert: Don - 2/1/2008

Question
Well...me and my g/f have been seeing each other for 6 months now...We have been happy together and i feel that she might be the one. One of my past g/fs go to the same schools as us and my g/f HATES her. One night a bunch of my friends were hanging out and they invited me over. I came over and my ex was there. Well....we never really kissed during our relationship b/c we never saw each other. Well...we kissed...alot....but nothing passed that...my ex told one of her friends and now shes telling my g/f i did it, of course i denied ever seeing my ex that night. She says she believes me but my ex's friend keeps taling about it...and i keep saying i didnt do anyhting...i really think i love her and i dont want to lose her but every day im stressed...should i just keep lying and let it pass...or take the dive into thorns and tell her...(i dont want to tell her b/c her ex b/f cheated on her five times and i told her i would never hurt her)

Answer
Keep denying it, if you tell her the truth, you'll only end up hurting her more. You need to convince her that her friend is lying to try and break the two of you up and that you would never cheat on her. Then make sure you never cheat on her again, you messed up this one time, don't let it happen again.