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Question
I have been with my boyfriend a year and a half. He swears I am the only woman
for him and wants to marry me. There have been incidents leading me to believe
he has cheated on me but with no solid proof. He is heavy into porn which
bothers me. I admit I have my own trust issues from previous relationships but
don't know how to confront him.
Hi Michelle,
I really want to help you out. But, I'm going to need a bit more info.....Are you an adult or a teen? What kind of things has he said or done that would make you suspect him of cheating? And, is he addicted to porn? Or, is it just a once in a while thing? And, are you constantly accusing him of cheating? Just give a little bit of more insight in your situation and I will happy to help you out.
Regards,
Melissa
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Melissa Durazo
Expertise
I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.
Experience
I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......
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The school of Life. Life is all the education I have ever needed.
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