Expert: Don - 3/12/2008

Question
I have been with my fiance for three years...I've suspected him of cheating before, but never really acted on it. but now, I've found out the he has several dating site profiles. My favorite profile section: "I love my GF but I only get to see her on the weekends for now. I'm looking for no-strings attached relationships." Also, I found empty condom wrappers on his floor in his room..he says they are for masturbation because "it's less messy." I don't know what I should do...I love him with all of my heart, but I don't know how to take all of this. Please help!

Answer
I think he's cheating on you, why would he waste money on condoms just so that he can masturbate, condoms cost way to much money to waste on using it on yourself. Plus the fact that he is on several dating websites should show you that he's looking for sex outside the relationship which is very disrespectful to you and the relationship.

You need to confront him about his actions and possibly look to end this relationship.