Expert: Don - 3/5/2008

Question
I have been with my fiance 6 months now.
first question is....
Is kissing cheating?

My fiance kissed another bloke 1 week after we started seeing each other, i don't know what it was but, i got over that easy for some reason, wether it was because my feelings were not so strong back then. i really don't know.
She then cheated on me at the end of January by kissing another bloke. I proposed to her at the beginning of February, but i think i openly did this to get the thought of that out of my head, because it really hurt. the night that i proposed, she went out with her friends and promised that she would come home to me, i work in a bar so was going to pick her up after i finished. when i finished i went to pick her up, and saw her with the guy that she kissed the week before, i stopped the car and asked her to get in, but she wouldn't, this argument went on for about 20mins, until eventually i demanded my ring back. she gave the ring back and ended up staying at this blokes house, she said that she only did that because her friend didn't want to stay at his house alone with him. I'm finding it really difficult to be happy at the moment, but i love her to bits,i don't know if i can ever trust her again. i really don't know what to do.

Answer
She's cheating on you with that other bloke. And yes kissing is cheating, your girlfriend should not be kissing some other guy, it's disrespectful to you and your relationship. And the fact that she would give you back the ring and stay with at this other guy's house proves that she doesn't care about you at all.