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How to Deal With Cheaters/Girlfriend Gave Her Virginity To Someone Else


John wrote at 2009-02-06 02:24:05
What she did is unforgiveable, however this has happened to me (family getting in the way, and acting like a boy she knew was amazing- her parents were religious as well). She did loads to appoligise, but it wasnt enough. What i recommend is saying to her "If you are truly sorry, then tell your family that your aunt allowed me to see this boy, and that i slept with him". I made my girlfriend say this to her mother, and her mother still blames herself haha

roberto wrote at 2010-03-26 00:52:15
im 16 and i wait til merriage to make love and to be honest i wouldnt care if i lost my virginty. thats ok to me.and i want to lose my virginty to a complete also freaks me out on how it hurts for a girl to have intercourse. idk if it hurts on a guy to sounds so painful to me.and you were the taking her virginty. you had intercourse before any one should probably find someone else.gud look dude i know you wouldnt let some girl ruin your life.

roberto wrote at 2010-03-26 01:07:27
oh and another thing is it ok to have sex if your adams apple was once dislocated and now you have trouble breathing some and you cant breath all the way through your windpipe.

scorpionfangs wrote at 2013-09-10 03:55:11
You should have killed her dead. She is even less than a whore.  

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