Expert: Don - 3/25/2008

Question
hey dennis. theres this guy at school i like and im pretty sure he likes me back too. cuz we always flirt. so anyway he has a long distance girlfriend back home she visits him every month, she flies 1000 miles to see him because she is in a different country.

but well we've been flirting a lot, well initially it was me always going up to him and talking to him about bands and music i like, etc. because i know he likes the same songs. and i know his girlfriend isnt into that stuff.

so one day we were talking in a group of people and i accidently let it slip to him that i enjoy watching porn.

for the rest of the day i saw him looking across at me with this HUGE grin on his face.

when he sees me he ruffles my hair. and the other day i was wearing this sexy dress and i saw him gazing at me from across the parking lot with this intense look.

its sooooo obvious that we want each other. but dammit he has a girlfriend.

how do i get him to leave his girfriend for me?

oh yeah, and what was with the huge grin with the watching porn thing. most women watch porn. so why was he grinning all like that.

Answer
The grin probably has to do with the fact that while most women may watch porn a lot of women won't admit that they do watch it and if they do they won't admit it around a group of strangers.

As far as stealing him away from his girlfriend, I honestly have no idea how you can do that, I'm not a big fan of stealing other people's boyfriend away from other people.

Think how you would feel if somebody stole your boyfriend, plus even if you get the guy, how could you ever trust him in a relationship if you know he can be tempted by other women and stolen away, don't you think he'd then end up dumping you for another woman.