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are these some sure signs a guy is planning/hoping to cheat with you that female friends should look out for? , I've got some down (tell me if you agree disagree) or that a gf should watch out for
*the girlfriend has NEVER been introduced to a paticular female friend/doesn't even know they exist
*the female friend shares his bed when she sleeps over his house
*theres a lot of 'accidental' touching/physical contact that is way more often/noticable than with a normal friend
*the guy and his friend had some sort of sexual past already
*arguments like they were dating
*jealousy of female friend if she mentions a guy she finds hot etc
*invading eachothers personal space with no anxiety
*never discusses his girlfriend with his female friend
*have heard other friends ask him how his current girlfriend is and he doesnt sound that optomistic/doesnt sound like a good topic for him
I don't think it is important to say who I am (I could be an outsider/friend the girlfriend or the other girl in question or even the guy, but I think saying who I am will make things bias, please answer just based on the facts I ahve given thanks a lot!
Hello,
Well, you have them listed down very well....They are ALL good signs that he/she is either cheating or planning to cheat.....
I can even tell you that out of the nine you have listed, I have had all nine of them done to me.......
So, it is safe to say that whomever is doing this is CHEATING 100%.
~ M
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Melissa Durazo
Expertise
I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.
Experience
I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......
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