Expert: Don - 4/8/2008

Question
Hey, I have a major problem on my hands. I saw this older girl after a friendship which lasted for about 2 months, even though i knew she had a boyfriend of 2 years. I had sex with her and enjoyed it a lot, and thought nothing about it, till the end. When asking her how she felt,as I felt horribly, she saw no problem with it and told me she had done this with multiple guys before myself. Thinking about how her boyfriend would feel (from what I know he is the "perfect" guy, and the nicest man), I told myself that I would want to know. Do you think I should tell this guy about the problem, and explain my situation and how it came to be, and that she has done it before? Or do you think I should try to stop thinking about the guilt and girl and move on. (I cant really move on without some closure though). PS, she is just using him for his money, and told me strait out she would leave him if she wasn't financially Bound to him. (if that helps)

Thanks

Answer
It's not your business or your place to tell him anything. If you do all it does it make you look like a jealous and insecure person because she is still with him and not sleeping with you.

You aren't a part of their relationship so you have no business informing him.

Why do you feel guilty anyway, you didn't do anything wrong, she did she was the one involved in a relationship not you and if she chose to go outside that relationship that's between her and him, not you.

Stay out of it.