How to Deal With Cheaters/is he cheating?

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okay so I've been dating this guy for the past 9 months and everything has been going great until a couple of weeks ago..a girl from his past text him..and just recently i looked through his phone and found other texts to her saying " that he is not going to be her dummy and be there for her only when she wants too" they were a bit confusing...we haven't had sex for the past 2 months when before we would have a lot of it!....i don't know how to tell him about the me looking at the texts because he will be mad at me for snooping at his phone when i wasn't suppose too....I'm so confuse i don't know if hes cheating on me....help

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Yes he is cheating, and has been cheating for the past 2 months, the first sign that your man is cheating is the fact that he stops having sex with you or the routine changes greatly. I think he is definitely up to something and you need to bust him on it.

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