Expert: Don - 4/27/2008

Question
Hi Don,
I discovered my husband has joined 21 web based dating escort services in the last 5 weeks. He is working in Florida and I am in California with our son. How do I get real evidence that he really did it long distance? He never has his lap top with him...he does have a blackberry and a cell...I joined two dating web sights hoping to write sexy stuff I know he loves, trying to lour him in if he was on, in the town he's in.lot's of hits but not my guy...What do you think I should do?
Thank You so much!

Answer
Continue to try and send him sexy notes on that website to see if he bites.

Also if you can get copies of his cell phone bill and see who he calls repeatedly, especially if it is a number he calls late at night or spends hours talking to, if you see a pattern for that number call it and see who it is.

The best way to catch him is through the site though, if you can get him to send you a few notes and agree to meet you somewhere, then you know he's probably done it with other women.

It's not 100% concrete proof but it's about as close as you can get from 3,000 miles away.