Expert: Don - 4/1/2008

Question
i've  been with my boyfriend for 7 years now, but within the last few years i've become less attracted to him.
There is this man who i know, and in the past he has come on to me and wanted to mess around, but nothing happened. I have recently been in contact with him via email, and told him how attracted i am to him, and basically that i want to have sex with him, and he feels the same.
So, we ended up meeting, but didn't really do anything since i didn't have much time, but now we're planning on meeting and going all the way. I want this man like i have never wanted anyone before...these feelings are very hard to ignore.
I'm aware that it is wrong and that i may become emotionally attached and things could end badly.....i just don't know what to do...help me please!

Answer
If you're not attracted to your boyfriend, then why do you stay with him and waste his and your time, instead of cheating on him, do both of you a favor and break up with him and then you'll be free to have sex with whomever you please without trying to hide it from this other guy.

I think if you want to have sex with this other guy then do so, but don't hurt your boyfriend in the process, if you're not attracted to him and don't want to be with him then do the right thing and let him go so he can move on with his life and you can sleep with this other guy guilt free.