Expert: Melissa Durazo - 4/23/2008

Question
what are the signs of someone cheating

Answer
1) They go to another room when they get a call or text
2) they make excuses not to go out with you
3) They convince you that you need to take a girls night out, so they can sneak away for an evening with the other woman
4) they come home upset most of the time and take it out on you - which means he and the other woman just had a blow out over why he hasn't broken up with you, again
5) they start hanging more often with the guys, which means he's really hanging out with the other woman and his friends are all in on the lie and know not to answer their cells if you call them looking for him
6) His friends start acting distant towards you, they can't look you in the eye or start acting more sympathetic to you
7) He starts buying new underwear and it's not even the kind he's worn for the last 5 yrs
8) he starts looking a little neater, fitter or cleaner than you're use to
9) He's always late after work & he tells you he is giving a co-worker a ride home more often than not
10)He stops having sex with you all together
11) he won't allow you to go down on him unless he showers - which wasn't a problem before
12)he tells you he was too drunk to come home so he parked his car on a public street and fell asleep until he sobered up
13) He lies so much that his stories get all twisted and he can't remember his lies
14)he comes home with gifts his female "friend" or "co-worker" gave to him just because she thinks he's a "great" guy
15) you find strange "spots" on his underwear or pants when you do the laundry and you know you haven't  been intimate
16) he starts using condoms with you again when it's been a while since you last used them
17) someone all of a sudden keeps calling your house and hangs up when you answer, and they won't unblock their number, even though the majority of the calls you get are always unblocked
18) he starts blaming you for the lack of sex in the relationship
19) he prefers to spend more time alone than to spend time with you, not only that, he starts avoiding family functions with you
20) he makes plans with you and at the last minute, he starts up an argument, so in the end you either don't go or you go on your own

**hope this helps....!!***