Expert: Don - 4/6/2008

Question
my problem is my boyfriend wont stop staring at other women, walking down
the street if he sees a girl walk past he will go out of his way to check her out
when im standing right next to him, it really gets me down, i tell him to stop
looking over my shoulder at other girls but he just makes excuses for his
behaviour, i know he loves me but i wish he would respect me more , also
recently i have seen him purposely looking for his ex girlfriend, peering
through her work place window to get a glance of her right in front of me.......
what should i do?

Answer
Turn the tables on him, since he won't stop even though you've told him how much it bothers you, how about you start looking at guys while you're out with him and show him how it feels to be disrespected right to your face.

Your other option is to demand respect by telling him flat out you're tired of his disrespectful ways and if he doesn't change them, he's going end up losing you and alone.

Stop letting him walk all over you and maybe he'll respect you more.