Expert: Don - 5/16/2008

Question
WELL ANYWAYS I BEEN MARRIED FOR 2 YEARS NOW AND IT SEEM  WE ARE IN A LOT OF DRAMA... I TOLD HIM WE NEEDED A BREAK N HE AGREE SO I WENT SPEND TIME WITH MY MOM N CAME BACK AND HE SAID...FOR ME TO MOVE IN WITH HIM N HIS NEW GIRLFRIEND SO SHE CAN HELP ME N HIM OUT FINANCIALLY.. SHE IS FROM FRESNO N I'M FROM SAC.. WHAT KIND OF GIRL IS SHE? WHY WOULD SHE COME DOWN N STAY WITH ME N HIM IF SHE KNOW HE IS MARRIED.. I'M VERY HURT. HE TOLD ME SHE IS ONLY HELPING US OUT FINANCIALLY BUT IS HE LYING? I AM VERY MAD BUT WHAT CAN I DO I LOVE HIM SO MUCH TO DO THIS FOR HIM BUT IS IT A GOOD CHOICE TO STAY WITH HIM N HIS NEW GIRLFRIEND WHILE I'M STILL HIS WIFE OR SHOULD I JUST DIVORCE HIM? HE TOLD ME IT WILL ONLY BE FOR A LITTLE WHILE N HE WONT FALL IN LOVE WITH HER BUT IS THAT A LIE? WELL HE STOP LOVING ME N LOVE HER? HE WONT LET ME LEAVE!! HE WANTS ME WITH HIM AND HER BUT ITS KILLING ME SO MUCH INSIDE. SHE  IS FROM FRESNO AND GETTING A DIVORCED N MY HUSBAND AND HER MET ONLINE. IS IT MY FAULT? DOES HE NOT WANT ME ANYMORE? WELL I WILL APPRECIATE IF U REPLY BACK TO ME.. THANK YOU!!

Answer
If he still wanted you, he wouldn't have a girlfriend. You need to divorce this man and move out of that house. Go back to live with your mother or wherever else you can find a place but to stay in that house with your ex-husband and his new girlfriend is crazy.

Trust me if he wanted to be with you, then she wouldn't be there. Stop making a fool of yourself and leave that entire situation alone.