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Expert: - 5/25/2008


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if my husband has been conversating with a female behind my back for 6 months & when I caught them they both said it was just talk is this innocent or a sign of infidelity?

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Yes, it is. If he is doing it behind your back, it is considered cheating, in the emotional sense, because he is building an emotional bond with this woman. I suggest you speak to your husband about how uncomfortable this makes you feel. He should respect your feelings. And, if it is just innocent talk, then, perhaps, he should include you in the conversations. There is nothing wrong with a man having female friends, as long as they aren't behind closed doors.....You are his wife, and he is carrying himself like a teenager....You deserve respect.
Good luck.....
~ M

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