How to Deal With Cheaters/why do guy cheat?

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Expert: - 5/14/2008


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When a guy tell u that "he love u" why would u go back to ur ex girlfriend? And tell her that you love your girl more than anything? Is that to just waist time or is it cuz they still love them?

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Only weak men have that issue......Strong men don't have the need to cheat or be confused....All men are not like that.....Most men want the cozy familiarity that a previous relationship had....And, they spend most of their time comparing the new gf with the old one & vise versa.....This usually happens because they jumped from one relationship to another without figuring themselves out first......In the end, if a guy was a cheater from the beginning, he will remain a cheater for life.....Because his self esteem will always demand that type of attention and want....
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I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.

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I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......

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