How to Deal With Cheaters/desperate for help

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My fiance and I got engaged last christmas, and we just moved in together in June.
He recently started beeing distant towards me, we do not have intimate time together.
We also just baught a 1 year old dog and this dog make us fight like no tomorrow.
Yesterday night, we got back home at 9.30pm, and he told me
that he would go see his friends.
I fell asleep and saw him at 3.30am coming to bed.
When i asked him this morning, he told me that he came home at
12.30 and that he played video games and watch a movie and then came to bed.
He never did that to me.
I need help, and somehow dont feel like i can trust him.  

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If you don't feel you can trust him then you need to break up with him or take some time away from him. Relationships are built on trust and they can't survive if one or both parties can't trust each other. If you can't trust him all you'll end up doing is driving yourself insane worrying about what he is doing and who he is doing it with and drive him away by constantly being suspicious of him.

So if you really can't trust the guy, break up with him now and save yourself the heartache of breaking up down the round.

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