Expert: Don - 7/9/2008

Question
QUESTION: Without using another person as an alibi, what are some good stories that have worked for you in getting away with going away for the night or a weekend.  I don't want my partner to find out as he is already suspicious.  I do work in the health care industry if that would be of any help in coming up with a good cover story.

ANSWER: Your best bet since you work in the health care industry is to either say there is a medical emergency in another place that will require you to help out and be away for a night or couple of nights, or you could go with you have to go out of town for some kind of medical conference or convention.

One of those two should work for you.

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QUESTION: I wouldn't be used in a medical emergency.  I do have medical convention's or conferences but worry he might want me to call from wherever I was supposedly staying or want details.  Have you ever had to come up with stories.  I guess I would like to hear some ideas from you that have worked.  You didn't elaborate too much.  Thanks for your answer though.

Answer
The problem is my stories won't work for you, the stories can't be generic and will work for everybody, they have to be special to you so that they are more believable, my stories worked for me because they were related to things that I was involved with.

Also I don't really believe in taking overnight trips with people I'm cheating in, it's to relationship to me, when I cheat I make it a point to be after only one thing and that's getting sex from somebody else, I don't start second relationships with other people because they are to much work and not worth it, if I wanted to be in a relationship with a person I was cheating with then I would dump the person I am with and date that other person.

When it comes to details you just have to be strong and believable with them, you have to have confidence in your story and make it airtight so that the person you are tricking won't have any excuse but to believe you.

If you're worried then you probably shouldn't be cheating because you're going slip up because you're to nervous. You have to be confident to be a successful cheater.

Sorry I couldn't help you more.