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My Ex Wife begged me to come back for about 2 months then suddenly when they are planning a high school reunion she reunites with a fellow class mate on Blog.. How ever even though i didn't go back it hurts knowing she is seeing this guy now.. So how do i let this not bother me
Sometimes, the only way to get over someone is to just let them go. It may sound hard to do. But, we sometimes have no choice. And, if you can avoid all contact with her, the better. If you both have children together, just deal with her when it only concerns the kids.
I know it must be hard for you to let go of someone you still have feeling for. And, it is very normal to feel hurt when someone you loved has moved on.
But, in the long run, you are so better off. There is a reason she is your EX-WIFE.
Surround yourself with good people. Take up some new hobbies. Go out there and find yourself a person who is much more compatible with you....Don't dwell on what you once had. Because, if you do that, you will never open yourself up to the better things in life.
Good luck...And, take care!
~ M
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Melissa Durazo
Expertise
I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.
Experience
I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......
Education/Credentials
The school of Life. Life is all the education I have ever needed.
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