Expert: Don - 8/10/2008

Question
I was married for 21 years, but with the same man for 26 years.  I've been dating a man for eight months and within the eight months he has cheated on me 3 times with his old girl friend.  I wanted to remain friends with this man (not sure why), but I felt a connection.  Without getting into great detail I knew he was cheating through his behavior, intuition, whatever you want to call it. And, he lives 600 miles away in Michigan....but was cheating with a woman from the cape.  Supposedly now he has not spoken with this woman since June, but he doesn't talk to me as much at night on the phone and I can't help but think something is up.....I think he has an anonymous profile on Yahoo personals but I can't prove it.....I really like this guy we have fun together and a lot in common....  I would like a man's perspective.  Any help appreciated.

Answer
I mean I would guess he is still cheating on you, because you have given him the idea that it is okay to do so. If he cheated 3 times on you in 8 months and you stayed with him that lets him know that he can cheat whenever he wants and you will do nothing about it, so he's never going to stop cheating because he knows he can get away with it without any consequences.