Expert: Don - 8/13/2008

Question
 Look i love mii boyfriend but he has this older friend, he's like 23. anyways i like him, i realy want him to "lay the pipe" i mean he lives right across the street from him and their always together, but when my boyfriends not looking he's smaking mii ass, and sending meh dirty text messages..... i realy like it...ALOT

how do i let him know that i want to take it further...... make things more physical.... without mii boyfriend finding out.....

i need your help

Answer
I'm going tell you up front it's damn near impossible to cheat on your boyfriend with his best friend without your boyfriend finding out. Chances are actually that as soon as you approach the best friend he'll turn right around and tell your boyfriend. So it's going be tough.

You do have a positive going for you, because it appears that by sending you dirty texts and such that the best friend wants you as much as you want him and is willing to possibly keeping it quiet.

So what you do is find a way to get him alone and make sure your boyfriend isn't around and tell him your idea. Let him know that you want to sleep with him but that he has to keep it quiet.

At that point he'll either go along with the plan or rat you out to your boyfriend.

Make sure it's worth the risk before you do it though because you might lose them both.