Expert: Don - 9/8/2008

Question
i have always had trouble finding a good girl, i found someone i seem to like. she is the first girl i have dated for about a year bcuz my last girl f-ed me over hard. she left to visit someone right after we started dating, i heard something about her i didnt like, and asked her about it. she told me it was true, and i kinda didnt handle it well at first, but i realize now, her past is her past,she then stopped talkin to me for a week, and then told me, she didtn feel strong enough for a relationship yet, bcuuz of what had happend. she told me to go off, anf have fun, she doesnt want tohold me down. i told her i want her to hold me down, blah blah, and she said she would feel bad, she says she wants to be my perfect girl, and hopes it wont take long to fix her problems... do i believe her, and maybe she really did get messed up like i did, or is she messing around with someone on vacation???? i have a hard time believing girls, bcuz of my last gf,so it has juss been on my mind for the past, helllpppp!!

Answer
I think you should believe her, you have to remember every girl is different and you shouldn't blame her for the actions of someone else. Plus she has been honest with you in the past, when you asked her about the previous thing which I assume is bad from your reactions, she didn't lie to you then she I doubt she is lying to you now. You shouldn't think she is lying until you catch her in a lie until then assume that she is doing right by you.