How to Deal With Cheaters/Betrayed

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Shelby wrote at 2010-01-09 22:13:07
well i am young. I'm 15. but this girl is clearly making a mistake, because if she loves you she should not do what her family says. i mean they will get over it as long as she was happy. i recently got my heart broken. i am still suffering. people say that they cant live without the one they love... it is very hard. i know that from what i feel right now. just hang in there and know that in the long run, this could be a good thing. i know that its hard. like i said i am suffering right now too, but just try to look at this with a positive outlook. you are still young and there are a lot of people out there, and maybe you will be single for a while but it will get better. it always does. good luck healing your broken heart. :)  


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I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.

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I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......

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