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#1 wrote at 2009-04-23 10:23:36
well, 2 weeks is nothing, it sounds more like a fling if anything, if youve really loved her, and she really loved you. youd be together and thats that,



if she broke up with her boyfriend for you, thatd be a nice achievement for you to think, and hes probably mad at her, but she says she still likes him, she probably means it, women have more feeling toward a person they love more than men seem to. from what i can tell this is a race to do her either first, or more, pardon my piggishness to any ladies that might get mad at me for saying this, but its true, i see it all the time, if your looking to have a fun time and nothing serious, find out if thats what she wants (its probably not but hey, my ex and i were friends with benefits for years until we found more compatable people)


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I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.

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I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......

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