AboutMelissa Durazo Expertise I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue.
I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.
Experience I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......
Education/Credentials The school of Life. Life is all the education I have ever needed.
Question ive been with my girlfriend 4 , 2weeks an i feel like im just bein too clingy with her she liked me a lil more then i like her now its different , how to get back the upper hand
Answer Hi,
I hate to break it to you but, there is no "upper hand" in this situation. Being in a relationship has nothing to do with having the upper hand on one another.
Relationships should be 50/50 when it comes to love, respect, personal space & trust.
You're clingy because you are insecure. Insecure of what? That is something you will have to figure out on your own. If she hasn't given you a reason to feel insecure then the best way to get over insecurity is to start having a sense that you deserve to be happy within yourself. Regardless of whether or not this relationship works out. If you feel you are being too clingy, it could mean that you are spending too much time together and may require some personal space. You don't always have to be together 24-7.....
Don't over analyze your situation, do what comes naturally, the relationship is still new and what you probably feel is anxiousness to the whole newness of the relationship....
Best wishes,
~ M
