About Mason Webb Expertise One of the most difficult things to go through is when your partner cheats. I can answer questions regarding the following: How do you take the steps to develop trust again with them. How to tell if she/he is cheating. How to regain trust in the relationship. How to confront a partner that you know is cheating.
Experience Dating Coach and author of 'Attractology Foundations: Principles of Attraction for the Modern Man,' Mason Webb has established himself as an elite dating expert in the art of attraction. Having spent the last six years studying social dynamics, interpersonal communication, seduction, and the science behind creating and keeping relationships, Mason has worked his way up over the last two years as Attractology's Head Dating Coach. His teachings are based on a natural approach to dating and a decorated individual experience to follow. Mason is one of the pioneers to the application of eastern philosophy, and sports intelligence to the dating world. While getting his degree in Psychology from Oregon State University, he managed to receive First Team All-Academic honors for two of his four years, and also played a year professionally with the Vancouver Whitecaps. Having studied under some of the top sports psychologists and life coaches in the world such as Dr. Jerry Lynch, and Dr. Dan Friegang, he uses applied psychology, visualization, affirmations, goal achievement techniques and influential communication to help his clients get the results they want. His unique understanding of social dynamics, coupled with a profound knowledge in mastery, and learning acceleration gives Mason the ability offer a fast, efficient, and unique style of consulting and counseling. As one of the top, emerging, online dating coaches, Mason looks forward to reaching out and touching as many people as he can.
Organizations Head Dating Coach at attractology.com
Publications Author of Attractology Foundations: Principles of Attraction for the Modern Man
Education/Credentials B.S. in Psychology at OSU
Awards and Honors 4-time academic all conference student athlete
Question My bf and i have been dating for almost a year now. about a month ago he was at a party and was drinking a lot. i wasn't there because we live about 3 hours from each other. this other girl that he sort of knows was drinking a lot too i guess and she told him that she thought he was hott and then she started kissing him. he did stop her and told her that he had a gf though. he told me right away the next morning which made me feel a little bit better about the whole thing but it's still bothering me. every time he goes out, all i can imagine is someone kissing him. he said that he would stop drinking when im not there for awhile but i dont know how long that will last. he felt terrible about it and apologized a lot and he really is a good guy but i just can't seem to get over it. i'm worried that i won't be able to trust him again. any suggestions on how to get over this and put it behind me or how to trust him?
Answer Thank you Lauren for your concern. You are not alone in this department.
So how do you forgive him and move on. First off, as hard as this may seem, if you want to continue a relationship with this young man, then you need to make him feel good about coming clean. You've already made him feel guilty about it, which is a natural emotion that comes with breaking the trust of somebody that you care about. But now that the two of you have made amends, it's important for you to sit down and have a heart to heart with him.
Let it all out and don't hold it in. Let him know how hurt you were and still are, but how you still love him and want a relationship. Then think of some place where the two of you can find resolve.
Maybe by communicating openly, you will create an avenue for him to tackle these issues without running and hiding from there because he's scared of the consequence....
Right now, he needs to feel like you can still care about him, trust him, and actually go on to having a better and more healthy relationship afterward. That everything happens for a reason and this is only a test, your response to this is entirely up to you.
You need to decide whether or not you can let him off the hook. Because he's not going to be a good boyfriend to you if you can't. He's going to see it in your eyes, in your tone, and feel your distance if this continues.
Hope this helps,
if you have any more questions, email me at mason@attractology.com
Thanks,
Mason Webb
Lead Dating Coach
