How to Deal With Cheaters/Relationships

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I'm in a bumpy relationship, I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me with this girl that I hate. Do I cheat on him for revenge?

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Hi Tanasia.

No, that would make you no better then him.  If the relationship was bumpy before he cheated on you, a break up may be the best thing.  if you love him, then talk with him about it and see what he wants to do.  Don't let give him a second chance if he doesn't seem serious about being with you.

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Kate Rosling

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Cheating on or being cheated on is a touchy subject. With the right information about your dilemma, I can tell you how to find out if you are being cheated on, or how to get a confession out of your partner. If you want to cheat on your partner, I can try and give ideas on how to keep it secret. I can also answer questions on the emotional effects of cheating, guilt trips, etc.

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I have been cheated on, so I know the emotions that it can entail.

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I have a B.A in Psychology from John Hopkins University.

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