Expert: Kate Rosling - 10/9/2010

Question
So... I had an idea my girlfriend was cheating on me so I did some looking around and got access to her email account. Well I found 4 videos of her having sex all with the same guy. I haven't confronted her because oddly enough, I like watching the videos!! And since I have access to her account, I know when they are going to hook up and it actually turns me on. Like to the point where I'm hoping they make another video and he emails it to her. She sees him atleast once a week and I make it as easy as possible for her to see him by not questioning her.

My problem is... should I tell her I know? I kinda really don't want it to stop!! I see what they say to each other via the emails, and they both agree it's just sex. So I don't think I have much to worry about. He also has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do....

Answer
Hi Ryan.

Well if you enjoy watching it, let it continue.  Telling her you know would ruin the taboo aspect for you.  If the sex is still there for you, then you should just let it go and enjoy the videos.  

If you let her know though, you guys maybe be able to set up threesomes, which could spice it up for both of you.