How to Deal With Cheaters/cheating boyfriend

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QUESTION: i have been in a relationship for two year and my boyfriend is
heating with a girl next door i confronted him about it 3 time
and he is still with her. i also live with him and i love him
very much what should i do

ANSWER: Hi Shammy.

If he is not willing to let go over her for you, then you should leave.  Don't hurt yourself by allowing him to cheat on you.

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QUESTION: i am willing to give him one more chance and thats it. how
can i forgive him for what he did and by the way the girl is
such a bitch she is pushing it all the way. and guess what
she is only 17 years old. the slut call my phone and send me
nasty messages and even made her friend send me message on
facebook bout i should leave her man

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In this situation, you should talk to your man and ask him who he wants.  If he says you, then show him the messages and ask him to make her stop.  If it continues, file harassment charges.  If he says he doesn't know, then you need to leave and stop putting yourself through this.

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Kate Rosling

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Cheating on or being cheated on is a touchy subject. With the right information about your dilemma, I can tell you how to find out if you are being cheated on, or how to get a confession out of your partner. If you want to cheat on your partner, I can try and give ideas on how to keep it secret. I can also answer questions on the emotional effects of cheating, guilt trips, etc.

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I have been cheated on, so I know the emotions that it can entail.

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I have a B.A in Psychology from John Hopkins University.

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