How to Deal With Cheaters/Being cheated on?

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I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have a two month old child together. He is 32 and i am 24. He has been married before which ended in divorce, and has two kids with his ex-wife. He is a saggitarius and im a libra. He is soooo flirty. I want to know if he's cheating on me. I have looked through his phone before and seen that he flirts and textx with girls. Plus i saw in his email one time naked pics sent back and forth to another woman. I confronted him and he admitted it and apologized. however, one time i pretended to be another woman and emailed him back and forth for a while and set up a fake hook up with him. He agreed and i acted like sex would be involved. He was all for it! Then the day it was scheduled for, he acted like he had somethin to do! This was when we were only dating a few months, but to this day, he still denies it!! i just need to know if hes cheating, or how i can make him confess if he is

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Hi Lindsay.

All you really need to do is catch him somehow, but really, you already got your answer. It is pretty obvious he is at least trying too and is not ashamed of it.  He is denying it because he knows you can't prove it.  

Try another email thing.  And when he see's you instead of the other woman, you can take it from there.  But yeah, it seems like he would have no problem going through with it.  Which is a typical Sag, they have crazy sex drives.

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Kate Rosling

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Cheating on or being cheated on is a touchy subject. With the right information about your dilemma, I can tell you how to find out if you are being cheated on, or how to get a confession out of your partner. If you want to cheat on your partner, I can try and give ideas on how to keep it secret. I can also answer questions on the emotional effects of cheating, guilt trips, etc.

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I have been cheated on, so I know the emotions that it can entail.

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I have a B.A in Psychology from John Hopkins University.

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