How to Deal With Cheaters/Is it or isnt it..

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Expert: Kate Rosling - 9/17/2010


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I have been on and off again w a guy I met back n may. but recently we got back together.. He has always kinda came and went while I sat at home.. He swears he doesnt do n e thing wrong when I ask him if he is.. But recently when he has left{the past three days} he has not bought but picked me flowers. one single , two the next, and three today.. am I crazy and he is doing that to b nice and show me how much he loves me? Or is it his concious thinking and doing for him? I mean is he possibly cheating on me?

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Hi Amanda.

I think he is just trying to show how much he loves you.  You always have to give them the benefit of the doubt till you have hard evidence.  If your heart really believes he is cheating on you, check his phone real quick, if nothing is there, then you should trust him.

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Kate Rosling

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Cheating on or being cheated on is a touchy subject. With the right information about your dilemma, I can tell you how to find out if you are being cheated on, or how to get a confession out of your partner. If you want to cheat on your partner, I can try and give ideas on how to keep it secret. I can also answer questions on the emotional effects of cheating, guilt trips, etc.

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I have been cheated on, so I know the emotions that it can entail.

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I have a B.A in Psychology from John Hopkins University.

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